The Great Divide
Finding Common Ground in Divisive Times
This is one interview in a 6-part series. The interviews were anonymous, and names changed to keep anonymity.
Why do you think our country is so divided right now?
Sarah: I think…it seems to be a race factor. People think half of law enforcement is bad, when it’s really only 2% who are bad.
- Tell us a little about yourself.
Sarah: I’m married to someone in law enforcement, and I have two kids.
- Would you describe yourself as liberal, conservative or independent? Why? Have you always seen yourself this way or have you changed over time?
Sarah: I would say I’m a Republican, and I tend to be conservative because my husband is a police officer. Before I got married, I was 75% Republican and 25% Democrat. My top charities are Anti-Sex Trafficking, Anti-Bullying and Foster Kids.
- What are the issues that you feel most strongly about?
Sarah: Most politicians are not out for the people. Most Presidents are not for the people. Most people get there and then forget why they’re there. It’s more of a power trip, more than anything.
- What subjects would you say might be a place for common ground? In other words, places where your views might intersect with someone who you would otherwise be voting very differently from?
Sarah: Republicans believe that you make your own choices; you can be more free with your speech and say what you want. Regarding abortion, I believe you should make your choice on your own. Regarding guns, I believe everyone should have them, and take mandatory classes once a year.
- How do you feel about the January 6th insurrection?
Sarah: I’m 50/50 on that to be honest. I think it was crazy. I don’t think anyone should be attacking like that. People are allowed to show their views and fight with words. I think it’s gotten to a point where all of these things could have been prevented, if they did the right thing.
- Do you have friends who think differently politically from you? If so, do you have conversations about what’s going on politically? Or do you avoid them?
Sarah: I’m very open. My Mom and Dad and I are on the same side. My sisters are on the opposite side. I have no problem having a conversation. It doesn’t matter if it’s a Democrat or Republican in office. They’re not doing anything for me, per se. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
- What do you think the solution is for bringing people together again?
Sarah: To let people speak about their views without getting into an argument. People shouldn’t take things personally. I’m very open, very blunt, very honest. I don’t have a filter. Either you like me, or you don’t. There is no in between.
- When we don’t agree on things, what’s the key to maintaining civility?
Sarah: For me, I keep quiet. Which is weird because a lot of people need to state their point of view. You can state your opinions without getting into an argument. A lot of people just don’t know how to do that.