As families gather for the holidays, Boys Town reminds us that connection—not perfection—is what matters most.
Palm Beach County & Broward County, FL (Nov. 23, 2025) — For many families, Thanksgiving is a time to reconnect, share a meal, and celebrate gratitude. But it can also bring together a mix of personalities, opinions, and emotions that sometimes make the holiday table feel more tense than thankful.
Boys Town behavioral experts say that when families approach the day with grace and gratitude—rather than expectations of perfection—they can turn potential conflict into connection.
“We all come to the table with different experiences, beliefs, and feelings,” said Dr. Steve Arcidiacano, Director of the Outpatient Behavioral Health Clinic at Boys Town South Florida. “The key is to remember that Thanksgiving isn’t about winning arguments or revisiting old disagreements. It’s about creating space for everyone to feel seen, heard, and appreciated.”
Experts recommend focusing on shared values rather than differences, setting healthy boundaries around sensitive topics, and modeling respectful conversation for children. Even small gestures like offering a genuine compliment, asking about someone’s year, or choosing to listen rather than react, can help create a more peaceful and meaningful holiday.
For some youth, including those in foster care or residential programs, “family” may look different during the holidays. Boys Town encourages communities to think inclusively like inviting neighbors, volunteers, or alumni who may not have family nearby to join in their celebrations.
About Boys Town South Florida:
For over a century, Boys Town has been a beacon of hope, transforming the lives of America’s children and families through innovative youth, research, and healthcare programs. Boys Town South Florida has been providing life-changing care to area children and families since 1991. Our programs and services are part of the Boys Town national network and include the organization’s research-proven methods, which ensure that troubled children and families across the country receive the right care, at the right time, in the right way. You can find more information about Boys Town online at www.boystown.org.