Teen Talk
Lessons From My Father
By Evan Baumel
Out of all the people who have shaped my life the most, none but a few have been as important in my life as my father. Despite the obvious fondness a son has for his dad, I am glad that my father is Eric Baumel. If it were not for my dad, my drive for the pursuit of knowledge would be nonexistent.
For one thing, I have learned from my dad that it is best to be honest. Whenever someone asks him a question, he always replies with an honest answer. My father is the most ethical man I know. He has tried to instill in me that avoiding the truth will only make a situation worse, not better. As a result, those who know me recognize that I will always give them a polite, yet honest answer.
Another virtue that he has bestowed upon me is patience. Though he has gone through a plethora of challenges and trials, he has maintained a calm stance. I find that to be an admirable trait. I am the youngest of three, and most fathers his age would have reason to pull every hair out of their head. I am pleased to say that my father still has a full head of hair.
I consider him to be a renaissance man. Well-rounded and talented, his creativity melds with his knowledge of technology. He has studied photography and is up to date on the latest computer software that compliments his photographic skills. He’s a web designer and has taught me these skills as well. My father takes great joy in the culinary arts, and has cooked many delicious meals.
From the start, I have always been taught the importance of moderation. He once said something that still resonates in my mind, “There are two kinds of people in the world: those who believe there are two kinds of people, and those who don’t.” What that phrase means is the world is not just black and white, but there are also shades of gray (which he knows well, since he’s a radiologist).
One of the attributes I most admire is his intellect. Ask him anything, any subject. Books, current events, media, history, pop culture, you name it. If he doesn’t know the answer, he’ll look it up. But what’s most fascinating is that he usually knows the answer. It’s mind boggling.
He is truly a wonderful role model as a father and husband. He treats my mother, his children, and his parents with kindness, love and respect. I have lived in Wellington my entire life. Anyone who knows my father will agree that he is exactly how I’ve described him and more. As I depart to go to college at American University in Washington, D.C., I hope to emulate all the lessons I have learned from my father.
To my readers, this is my last article. I may be on my way, but you’re very lucky that my father (and mother) will still be here to contribute to the community. I look forward to reading AroundWellington.com from afar. And when I do, I will fondly remember those who supported and shaped me. Have a wonderful summer!
Editor’s Note: CONGRATULATIONS to Evan Baumel on his next move, going off to American University and his recent Award of Excellence in Political Science at the Palm Beach State College Awards of Excellence Dinner! We have enjoyed his wonderful “Teen Talk” articles! Evan, we look forward to seeing you do great things in the future!