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Women’s Empowerment Luncheon in Miramar on March 11th

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Photos by Carol Porter

Miramar’s Women’s Empowerment Luncheon was held on Friday, March 11, at the Miramar Cultural Center. The event was hosted by Miramar’s Vice Mayor Yvette Colbourne and the guest speaker was Donna Brazile. Brazile is a political strategist, commentator, and NY Times Bestselling author.

Wedding Cake Tips: Everything You Need to Know About Buying a Wedding Cake

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By Jeff and Gyovanna Nelson of HappyCakes Bakery

Custom wedding cakes are becoming increasingly popular, as couples seek to create a unique and memorable wedding day. Wedding cakes can be very pricey, but we can tailor our services to match your budget every time.

But…

Wedding cakes can be expensive, and it’s hard to know what kind of cake to order. Do you want a classic white wedding cake? Or maybe something more unique, like a wildflower cake?

Let the talented folks at Happy Cakes Bakery solve that one for you! We are wedding cake bakers to the core, and we love designing creative cakes in Denver, CO.

Of course, there are plenty of wedding cake bakers and cake shops in Denver that will take your custom order, and most of them offer a wide variety of flavors and styles to choose from.

We are convinced that if you come to us and do a few cake tastings and custom design session, you won’t be disappointed!

So no matter what you’re looking for, you can be sure to find the perfect custom cake to fit your needs… and your budget!

The big day can cause anxiety among many people and create a lot of questions leading up to the purchase of the cake.

A few common ones are:

  • Why are wedding cakes so expensive?
  • How many days before my wedding should I plan my cake?
  • How many different cake makers should I reach out to?
  • Should I do a cake tasting?

In this next section we will try to answer these questions as good as we can.

Read on . . .

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Jeff and Gyovanna Nelson live in Denver, CO with their beautiful 3 boys aged 9, 7, and 5. They fell in love over 10 years ago in Denver and have since started a bakery named Happy Cakes Bakery. Happy Cakes specializes in custom cakes, wedding cakes, and various other baked goods like cupcakes, cake pops, and desert charcuterie boards.

Israel Tennis & Education Centers at Wycliffe

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Israel Tennis & Education Centers at Wycliffe Golf & Country Club

Photos by Alan Fabricant @ alfabphoto

On Thursday, March 10th, members of Wycliffe Golf & Country Club had the opportunity to see a special tennis exhibition, featuring young ITEC tennis players from Israel. Organizers Marty and Harriet Ross commented, “It was a smashing story of Playing for Peace and Beyond. Approximately 350 people were in the Wycliffe Center Court Stadium to watch the exhibition.” The event commentator explained how young people in Israel and beyond can promote peace via their tennis friendships.

Supporting a Gender Diverse Child

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How to Support a Gender Diverse Child 

By Anjali Ferguson, Ph.D. 

Did you know children begin their gender identity development as early as two years of age? 

There is so much we intentionally and unintentionally do as parents to promote and support this process of gender identity development. Still, aside from parents, children themselves draw their own understanding of gender identity through a process called gender exploration. 

Gender exploration is a normal process of development that occurs several times throughout our childhood and can continue to occur into adulthood. Therefore, we must understand the process and meet every child with love and support through their individual journey as parents. 

To better understand the process, we have to define the difference between sex and gender. 

Sex is the assigned gender of an individual based on physical characteristics at birth. Gender is a social construct of an internal state. It is informed by a combination of biology, development, and environment. That means that gender is not based on true biological or scientific differences (sex). 

Gender was created by society to classify behaviors. Culture and society influence how gender is expressed and how people operate in the world. For example, the notions that “boys are active” and “girls like pink” have no scientific rationale. They were created based on thought alone.

Historically, gender diversity, or the extent to which a person’s gender identity differs from the cultural norms prescribed for a particular sex, was considered a mental health condition. To this day, modern classification and diagnostic manuals include a pathological condition related to gender identity; however, gender diversity, exploration, development, and fluidity are not pathological or created by illness. It is innate. 

Gender identity development begins as early as the toddler years. By age 2, children start to notice physical differences. By 3, children can label themselves a boy or girl, and by 4, children have an understanding of their gender identity. 

The child can also notice gender diversity (i.e., non-conforming or non-matched with their biological sex) at the same time. Data shows that children who are gender diverse know their gender just as clearly as their gender-matched peers, even if it’s not accepted or seems confusing to parents. 

Caregiver and parents’ support is crucial to the health of gender-diverse children. 

Children who express a gender-diverse identity who feel supported by their family experience lower depression, suicidal ideation, anxiety. It is imperative we provide gender-affirming, supportive, and nurturing care for all children as they navigate these normative processes. 

Some examples of this include: 

1. Be supportive. For each child, “support” may look different. Approach them and their exploration with patience, kindness, and nurturance. 

2. Allow exploration. Remember, children are inherently curious, so they will naturally want to explore. Toys and books are not gendered. Allow boys to play with dolls and girls tools/trucks if they are interested. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to play or be.

3. Avoid judgment. One of the most important tips is to avoid shame, criticism, or judgment. Monitor your own biases and avoid statements like, ” Boys don’t wear dresses or play with dolls.” 

4. Provide resources. Provide a variety of toys in all forms, shapes, and colors. Also, introduce books with diverse families that include same-sex families. Give them access to books that dispel gender stereotypes like “Boys like Pink.” 

5. Correct other harmful adults. We all hold biases because of the societies we were raised in. Understand your own gender biases and help correct other adults who may unintentionally (or intentionally) make harmful statements. We all still have a lot to learn. 

There are many resources to learn more about how to best support children through gender identity development. Visit my website http://parentingculture.org for tools and the opportunity to connect and have open conversations around research-informed, inclusive parenting. 

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Dr. Anjali Ferguson is a culturally responsive psychologist and global resource on treating racial trauma and its mental health effects on children and families. Her commitment to social equity is experienced through her online community Parenting Culture– a research-informed, inclusive space for open conversations around parenting and her landmark contributions to Blindian (Black + Indian) literature. Dr. Ferguson speaks to providers, organizations and communities of all sizes on racial socialization and equity training.

16th Anniversary of AroundWellington.com

Photos by Carol Porter

On Thursday, March 10th, the AroundWellington team and friends came together to celebrate 16 years in business as well as having a business mixer. The event was followed by the amazing sounds of the Village Music Jazz Trio. AW holds a networking mixer the 2nd Thursday of each month at 6:30pm at Village Music & Cafe.

Week Of 2.27.22 in Wellington, FL

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Photos from the hottest events Around Wellington from the week of 2.27.22. Please send 3-4 photos of your social event, print-ready, with names in order from left to right to connect@khannaconnections.com to be considered for publishing.

At Polo For Life
Rita Reik and Kathleen Reichert at Polo For Life
Visse Wedell, Richard Brierley, Lucie and friends at Polo For Life
Attending the Great Futures Polo benefitting the Neil S. Hirsch Boys and Girls Club at Grand Champions Polo Club

By: Jacek Photography
Nikki Schadt, Lee Schadt, Kathleen Barbieri, Steve Jackson, and Denise Jackson attending the Great Futures Polo benefitting the Neil S. Hirsch Boys and Girls Club at Grand Champions Polo Club

By: Jacek Photography
Tracy Stein, Jeremy Stein, and Tag Oscarsson attending a match at the International Polo Club
PJ Rizzi and friends at Polo For Life
Piper Apfel, Barbara Bell Cook, and Brandon Phillips at Polo For Life
Sandra Stella, Ed Carter, and Jennifer Quent attending the Great Futures Polo benefitting the Neil S. Hirsch Boys and Girls Club at Grand Champions Polo Club

By: Jacek Photography
Florie Vinca, Anthony Palladino, Branden Doddo, Fionna Doddo, and Justin Warzala attending the Great Futures Polo benefitting the Neil S. Hirsch Boys and Girls Club at Grand Champions Polo Club

By: Jacek Photography
Summer Sawaya, Richard Bernstein, Juju Bernstein Carl Labossiere, Sandra Fuentes, and Kelly Gorman attending the Great Futures Polo benefitting the Neil S. Hirsch Boys and Girls Club at Grand Champions Polo Club

By: Jacek Photography
Rico Carroccio, Stephen Polin, and Arvind Bissoondath attending a match at the International Polo Club
Renatta Bissoondath, Dhruti Pandya Seedial, Nancy Polin, and Tracy Stein attending a match at the International Polo Club

$216,000 JTWG, Inc. CSIO4 Grand Prix

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Photos by Alan Fabricant

Forty-seven pairs of riders and horses were entered into this Sunday afternoon event.

Eight went clear (no faults or penalties).

Of the eight only two had no faults in the jump off.

McLain Ward of the USA riding HH Azur finished in first place and picked up the winner’s check for $71,280.

Second place went to Greece’s Ioli Mytilineou aboard Levis Du Muze and $43,200 in prize money.

Great Britian’s Ben Maher, Olympic Gold medalist in Tokyo in 2021, riding Faltic HB won $32,400 for his third place finish.

ALAN TONKS OF WELLINGTON:  A SOCCER MAN FOR LIFE

By Mike May

You can take the man out of soccer, but you cannot take soccer out of the man.  That’s one way to summarize the attitude about soccer for longtime Wellington resident Alan Tonks who is as passionate and mentally connected to the game of soccer in his 70s as he was as a young boy while growing up in England.  Admittedly, Tonks hasn’t played in an organized soccer game in more than 55 years, but he remains strongly attached to the sport.  Last summer’s Euro 2020 (Soccer) Championships, which were delayed until 2021 because of the global outbreak of COVID-19 in 2020, revealed his true passion for the sport.  For him, soccer is football.  It always has been and always will be.

“I watched every game of the tournament that I possibly could,” said Tonks.  “It was an amazing display of skill, speed, and strategy.  I only wish England could have won.”

England reached the final of the Euro 2020 Championships.  The finale pitted England vs. Italy.  The game was played on Sunday, July 11, 2021 at London’s Wembley Stadium.  The game was tied 1-1 after regulation and remained tied through extra time.  Italy eventually defeated England 3-2 in penalty kicks.  It was a gut-wrenching defeat for England (and Tonks), as England was hoping to win its first international tournament since defeating Germany 4-3 in the final of the 1966 World Cup, which was held at the old Wembley Stadium in London.

As they say in sports, wait till next year.  Next year is this year, 2022, when the World Cup returns.  It will be played in Qatar.  Tonks remains optimistic that England will prevail this year.  Only time will tell.  

Tonks’ passion for soccer, er football, started before he attended elementary school, which, in England, is called primary school.

“It was just after my father had returned from World War II,” remembered Tonks.  “I was three years old and my dad would take me outside to kick the football around.”

His passion for soccer, er football, has never wavered and remains strong.

“I used to dream about playing for England and I would go to sleep at night with a soccer ball in my bed,” recalled Tonks.  “In England, football was a fever.  It still is.  Every community and social group has a team.”

When Tonks started going to elementary school at Ridpool Road School in Birmingham, England, he played in pick-up games with friends and classmates.  Despite being the shortest, slimmest, and often being chosen last, he continued to play.  He was not a prolific goal scorer, but he was a good facilitator and defender.  He could move and pass the ball with his feet just as basketball players control the ball with their hands.

“I ended up being a pretty good player and they put me at left halfback even though I was not naturally left-footed,” said Tonks, chuckling.

For Tonks, perseverance eventually paid off in a big way.

At age 15, he wanted to play at a higher level so he mailed letters of introduction to the top professional soccer clubs in the English Midlands:  Birmingham City FC, Aston Villa FC, West Bromwich Albion FC, and the Wolverhampton Wanderers FC, aka, the Wolves.  Birmingham City responded and Tonks signed an agreement with that club.

“Teenagers like myself were hoping to make, at best, 20 pounds a week (today’s equivalent of nearly $60), but I didn’t make that much,” said Tonks.  “I was given a place to play football, a jersey to wear, and they gave me enough money to pay for the daily round-trip bus fare.  In addition to playing, my other main job with the club was to help the grounds staff take care of the club’s main playing field.”

While Tonks was delighted to be on Birmingham City FC’s depth chart, his father was not happy.

“My dad went berserk because he thought I was going to drop out of school,” added Tonks.  “I was never going to quit school.  In fact, it was the exact opposite.  I signed up for additional classes and extended my schooling for an extra year.”

Tonks was immediately assigned to play for Saltley, one of Birmingham City’s squads for developing players.  It didn’t take long for Tonks to get moved up to a higher level squad:  the Aldridge Old Boys.  Tonks and his teammates played in the Combination League, the soccer equivalent of baseball’s minor leagues.

While playing for Saltley and the Aldridge Old Boys, he traveled to Europe to play matches in many European countries.  He also played a few matches at London’s old Wembley Stadium on its well-manicured and maintained turf.  

“Playing on the turf at Wembley was heavenly,” said Tonks.

And, he was still going to school.

“Throughout the season, we’d sometimes play as many as three matches a week,” said Tonks.  “And, of course, we’d play every Saturday.”

By today’s standards, Tonks suffered because of a lack of proper footwear, bad training facilities, not enough proper nutrition by today’s standards, inconsistent coaching, and inadequate sports medicine supplies.  As a result, Tonks’ body broke down, especially his knees, and he was out of the game by the time he turned 21.  

“My knees were not in good shape,” said Tonks.  “My body had taken a beating.”

Soon thereafter, he emigrated to the U.S., where soccer was only played in pockets of the U.S. inhabited by immigrants from Europe and Central and South America.

He remained emotionally connected to soccer, but his points of contact within the U.S. soccer community were ‘hit and miss.’  

“I was approached about being a player for the Baltimore Bays, one of the early teams in the old North American Soccer League,” remembered Tonks.  “I went to three or four practices, but I couldn’t run because of cartilage problems in my knees.  And, there were so many nationalities and languages represented by the many players.  It made on-the-field communication very difficult.”

He did play briefly for a soccer team sponsored by a bank in Baltimore, but that experience was short-lived.

Still, his interest in the game and passion for the sport have remained in place.

And, because of his soccer-ball kicking prowess, he was given a chance by the NFL’s Baltimore Colts to come to training camp to try out as a placekicker in the mid-1960s.  He had never kicked an American football, but he felt the kicking similarities between a soccer ball and football were fundamentally the same.

“It was the beginning of the era of NFL teams signing European soccer-style kickers to contracts,” added Tonks.

So, he purchased some new cleats and showed up at McDonough High School in Baltimore where the Colts were practicing.  The head coach was Weeb Eubank.  Some of the players were legends and future NFL Hall of Famers:  Johnny Unitas, Alan Ameche, Jimmy Orr, Raymond Berry, and Art Donovan.  

“I didn’t make the team, but I made a few field goals during the tryout,” said Tonks.  “It was fun while it lasted.”

Truth be told, not many athletes have ever played soccer at the old Wembley Stadium and participated in an NFL training camp.  But, Wellington’s Alan Tonks has.  He may be the only man alive in Palm Beach County – at least in Wellington — who has those two athletic experiences on his resume.

Today, when Tonks watches soccer on television, his player instincts remain intact.

“My legs twitch and I know when and where the ball should be kicked,” said Tonks.

When Tonks reflects on his soccer past, he knows that he was blessed to have met, practiced with, played with, and played against some of the game’s great players such as Irish international Danny Blanchflower, German goalkeeper Bert Troutman, and England great Jimmy Greaves.  

Tonks also has strong memories of watching English soccer legend Stanley Matthews, the ‘Wizard of the Dribble,’ lead Blackpool to the championship of the 1953 FA Cup when Blackpool defeated the Bolton Wanderers, 4-3.  Tonks says that Matthews, who played on the right wing, was so good in that 1953 FA Cup final that the match was referred to as “Matthews Final.”  

“Matthews was brilliant that day and his performance was worthy of being included on the news reels at the time,” said Tonks. 

When he was a teenager, he also met Brazilian soccer legend Pele when the Brazilian national team paid a visit to London in the late 1950s.

Pele

As great as some of those past legends – which also include England’s Bobby Charlton and Northern Ireland’s George Best — may have been, Tonks feels as if they cannot compare with today’s soccer superstars.

“The physical fitness and ball control exhibited by today’s players is brilliant and the science behind the sport is amazing,” said Tonks.  “Today’s soccer players are better athletes than their peers of 60 and 70 years ago plus the facilities are better and the athletes have access to more advanced equipment.”

When he watches soccer matches on television, he loves watching the games from Europe, specifically the English Premier League, the Bundesliga in Germany, and the Serie A in Italy.

Clearly, Tonks’ enthusiasm for soccer remains strong and passionate.  

Without a doubt, Alan Tonks truly personifies the expression:  You can take the man out of soccer, but you cannot take soccer out of the man.

March, 2022 – AW in Pictures

Krista Martinelli of AroundWellington.com and Aimee Weisberger Stern of the Mom’s Club of Wellington FL.
Brunch in Olympia for Tony Nelson’s campaign on 3/6/22.
Wellington’s Judy Litner in Italy
The Council of Dads and The Wellington Wolves could not have had this most amazing result on Saturday, 3/5/22 without the help of friends, family, and members of the community.
2760 pairs of shoes donated to those in need at the In Jacobs Shoes Foundation.
Harold’s Universe illustration by Ingrid Webster

TEMPLE BETH TORAH WILL CELEBRATE 2022 GALA SERVICE AWARD WINNERS

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Wellington, FL (February 24, 2022) – Temple Beth Torah, in recognition of the remarkable contributions of two of its esteemed members, Todd and Debra Barron, will host their annual gala on March 19, 2022.  The Temple Beth Torah 2022 Gala Service Award will be presented to Todd and Debra for their dedicated time and service to both the temple and preschool.  

The gala will be held at the Village of Wellington Community Center Lake Promenade in Wellington. This outdoor event will feature a silent auction, dancing, casino games as well as food, wine, and cocktails. Join us for a fabulous evening honoring Todd & Debra and raising money for Temple Beth Torah, a family of families! More information can be found on the Gala’s website: https://templebethtorah.net/2022gala/. Tickets can be purchased online or by contacting the Temple directly at: 561.793.2700. 

The theme of Temple Beth Torah’s gala this year is Denim & Diamonds, to honor the outdoor venue and the diamond-level service Todd and Debra have provided TBT.  Guests will enjoy festive entertainment, a variety of wines and specialty cocktails, and delicious and diverse cuisine provided by various food trucks. This is a unique opportunity for temple members, preschool parents, and friends from the local community to come together for a night of fun and fundraising. 

Todd and Debra Barron

Todd and Debra Barron served as the Temple Beth Torah Gala committee chairpersons for four years. They are the reason we have this wonderful event today! Temple member attendance increased considerably each year the Barons were at the helm.  Their work is celebrated and honored as it has impacted our Temple immensely!

Todd Barron graduated from the University of Florida with a B.A. in business administration in 1996. He has worked as a financial advisor since that time. Todd has always been passionate about giving back to the community through volunteerism and philanthropy. He has served as President of the board of the Boys and Girls Club of Wellington and was the founder and former President of the board of the Young Friends of the Palm Beach Symphony. He volunteers his time to numerous event committees, and his unique skills as an auctioneer to many charity organizations in the area including Maltz Jupiter Theatre, Boys and Girls Club, Transplant Foundation, Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation and Habitat for Humanity. In 2015, Todd was honored with the Community Impact Award from the Young Professionals of Wellington. Todd loves to travel with his wife Debra and their two daughters, Sarah and Lilah. Todd and Debra were married in 2006 and have been members of the Temple Beth Torah congregation since they moved to Wellington in 2007. 

Debra graduated from the University of Florida with a B.M. in Music Education in 2001. She was an elementary music teacher in downtown Lake Worth for the ten years following her graduation. During her time as a music educator, she became passionate about grant writing and raising money to provide underprivileged children with a comprehensive instrumental music education program. She received a grant from VH1 Save the Music Foundation to start an elementary band program and wrote additional grants to create a band camp at Florida Atlantic University that was free to her students. Her work with underprivileged students inspired her to pursue an M.S. in School Counseling, which she attained in 2007. Debra worked as a middle school guidance counselor prior to having her two daughters, Sarah and Lilah. When she returned to work in 2016, she took on the role of high school guidance counselor. In this position she dedicated herself to creating programs that promoted college awareness to first generation American students and scholarship opportunities for all students in Wellington and the surrounding areas.  Debra’s greatest joy has been watching her daughter’s Sarah and Lilah grow up. She especially cherished the many years the girls spent at the Temple Beth Torah Pre-School.

The event will be made possible by the generosity of Presenting Sponsor: Irene and Joel Levine

Diamond Sponsors: Hightower, Stratton, Novigrod, Kantor 

Ruby Sponsors: Micheal and Brenna Barron, Todd and Debra Barrom

Topaz Sponsor: Ellen and Steve Shapiro

In- Kind Sponsors: Agliolio

Additional sponsorship opportunities are available for those interested in underwriting this worthwhile event.

The Gala committee looks forward to a night of celebration and fundraising on March 19, 2022.  Todd and Debra will be enthusiastically highlighted for their dedication to TBT both past and present.  The Temple community will have the opportunity to recognize and thank them all for their contributions to its continued success.