Wednesday, June 18, 2025
Home Blog Page 1024

February, 2010 – Adam and Carrie Simpson at Lynn University

0

PROFESSORS ADAM AND CARRIE SIMPSON

 

Bringing the Best in Drama to Lynn University

 

By Marla E. Schwartz

 

“Innovative, energetic, kind, influential, intelligent” and the word “brilliant” also comes to mind when describing the husband and wife team of Adam and Carrie Simpson, assistant professors in the Lynn University’s Eugene M. and Christine E. Lynn College of International Communication Drama Program based in Boca Raton, FL.  Adam also happens to be the Chair of the Drama Program.

 

Adam Simpson
Adam Simpson

 

 

Adam walks the-walk as a drama teacher, as his students know they have a bonified actor on their hands.  Not that working in the “fame” track is his aspiration, but South Florida does have opportunities and his talent has enabled him to enlarge his sphere as a professional actor.  For example, he was a featured actor on a segment of America’s Most Wanted and last February appeared in an episode of Burn Notice that films in Miami.  He and Carrie feel it’s important to not only teach their students about the field of acting, but to work in the industry, as well.

 

These roles models have done something more important than dare I say running just another drama department in this country, as their unique vision has helped to shape Lynn’s Drama Program into a one-of-a-kind experience merely by their experiential style of teaching.

“We believe you learn by doing, not by talking about doing,” Adam said.

Carrie Simpson
Carrie Simpson

A year ago they began a new curriculum within the department that they hope will take place every three years by taking their students to perform Off-Broadway in New York City. The process begins by putting out a call for script submissions and then choosing the scripts they feel will be a nice fit for their students.  In fact, some of the scripts presented in Boca were changed up a bit, and this allowed Adam and Carrie to not only direct their students, but perform with them, as well.  Audience members thoroughly enjoyed themselves at both productions.

 

 

Adam was born in Evansville, Indiana and raised in this area since he was a little boy, and Carrie was born and raised in Harrisburg, PA, attended the University of Pittsburgh and then attended Florida Atlantic University’s graduate school. 

“And the rest is fate,” Adam said.

“We met at FAU, I was in graduate school and he was an undergrad. That’s Adam’s favorite part about the story, doing productions together,” Carrie laughed.  “We became best friends and we were together a lot and then  – well, we didn’t necessarily have a formal first date, because we were on set and always together.”

“In fact, and we were just on a cruise recently and where some couples were contestants on the shipboard version of THE DATING GAME,” she explained.  “There were three couples on stage. One couple had been married 57-years, another couple had dated for years before getting married and another couple that was together 20-years. They were asked to recall their first date was and every single couple got it right. And we sat there and we were laughing because neither of us could figure out what was our exact first date. We can figure out significant moments, but it wasn’t necessarily when the first date happened.  I mean, the couple that had been married 57-years remembered where they went, what they wore, what they ate, and even how much they spent.”

There’s no doubt that this loving couple has a good thing going.  Hmmm.  Since it’s near Valentine’s Day, do you think they believe in soul mates?  Do they believe that they are each other’s soul mates?

“Yes, of course,” Carrie said.

“Absolutely,” is Adam’s response.

But so much for that lovely-dovey thing they got going on, they’re busy college professors!

The first weekend in February they will host Lynn’s third annual 24-Hour Theatre Project, where students, write, produce, direct and perform original plays in one 24-hour period.  This year local playwrights were invited to participate in this successful event.

Basically on Friday, February 5, the actors, directors and playwrights will meet.  Adam and Carrie will provide a selection of titles that nobody will have seen (except for them) ahead of time and then original plays will be created based on these titles. A pow-wow takes place, the playwright writes the script. The next morning everyone gets back together and the actors and directors have the entire day to memorize and rehearse the scripts. These plays will then be produced when the curtain rises at 7 PM on Saturday, February 6 in the Lynn Student Center Auditorium.

In the field of acting, “you cannot only bring half of your energy or half of your life to your work. It doesn’t work. You won’t work again if you do that,” Adam explained. “The 24-hour theater project helps the students learn how this is accomplished.  It teaches them to be motivated, to try really, really hard, and to think on their feet, to be forcefully creative.  It’s a tough business that requires you to go from zero to 60 in a heartbeat.”

“It’s free … just come by and have some fun,” Adam said. “Each play will be about ten minutes tops, no more – and it can’t be more then ten-minutes because there’s no way anybody could remember all those lines.  The number of plays range anywhere between six and nine plays.”

If you haven’t been to Lynn before – the directions are easy:

Interstate 95 (from the North)

  • Exit I-95 on Yamato Road.
  • Turn right (West) on Yamato Road.
  • Turn left (South) on Military Trail.
  • Campus is on right after first traffic light.

Interstate 95 (from the South)

  • Exit I-95 on Palmetto Park Road.
  • Turn left (West) on Palmetto Park Road.
  • Turn right (North) on Military Trail.
  • Campus is on the left, approximately 2-1/2 miles.

Florida Turnpike

  • Exit Turnpike on Glades Road, Boca Raton exit.
  • Turn left (East) on Glades Road
  • Turn left (North) on Butts Road.
  • Turn left (North) on Military Trail.
  • Campus is on left after second traffic light.

“The 24-Hour Theatre Project is an event that institutions across the country do, places such as schools, professional theatre companies, community theaters do it. The Naked Stage, down in Miami does it,” Adam explained.  “And Carrie has been doing it since she was an undergraduate at the University of Pittsburgh – it’s something that has been going on for a long time across the country and essentially it’s one day where we create brand new theatre and present it to the community.  It’ll be a collection of shorts.  It’s always a blast and has about 70 people involved, including, actors, playwrights, directors, crew members, it’s a load of fun and a great time to come out and celebrate the creativity of the people in the Lynn community.”

It was a fun experience as a college student and it’s something different, you’re not in rehearsals for a long time, you get to meet a lot of people, and just work under the gun in a slightly stressful but fun environment,” Carrie pointed out.  “It’s very creative and exciting so when I got down here and I said to Adam, we should do it.  And then one year we finally did.  The students look forward to doing it again the next year, some want to come back and direct, and then they can’t decide what’s more fun to be the actor or the director, because they kinda like both ends.  This year we may invite students who have already graduated and live in the area to come back and participate in it this year.”

Adam and Carrie have created something very special for the Lynn Community and have been at it five years now and they show no signs ever wanting their dreams jobs to end.  They’re always busy guiding their students into the next project at hand.

“Right now we’re working on creating short films with the students.  There are three groups of students and they’ve been making short films based on the scripts they wrote in the fall,” Carrie explained.  “These movies premiered on Wednesday, January 20.  It was the first time for many of them to be involved in making films and it has been fun.  They were out on location shooting and attended a premiere gala event where all the students got dressed up.  We rolled out the red carpet and had fake paparazzi, so they felt like movie stars. Hopefully, at some point these films will be posted online.”

And there’s no breather.

“After that, we’re continuing our Play Reading Series that’s run out of Jan McArt’s office, where we produce four plays in this series each year, mostly by local playwrights.  Mark Della Ventura, who is also writing for the 24-Hour Theatre Project, has his play Is There a Chance slotted to be read next in the series, on February 3 at 7:30 PM,” Adam said.

The next play in the series, Marriage Counselor, by David Sirois will be read on March 10, 2010.  The readings take place in the Amarnick-Goldstein Concert Hall and the tickets are $10 each, benefiting the university drama program.  Tickets for groups of 20 or more are $7 each.  Jan McArt’s Theatre Arts Guild members are free, but must make reservations in advance. To purchase tickets, call the theatre box office at 561-237-9000.

“Then we have a student directed production that we’re going to produce that students are submitting for approval right now and that’ll take place in mid-March,” Adam pointed out.  “And then we’re doing a play called ‘Project Nuremberg’ which is a new project that we’re writing right now, basically – many months ago, we discovered in our library we have the original transcripts from the Nuremberg Trials.  The University got together with a whole bunch of different organizations; local Temples, Rabbis, and we decided to put on a big function based on these transcripts.  There are lots of different aspects to it.  And our participation involvement in the presentation is to create a play based on the trials.  We begin production on it the first week of February and the show will have a private premiere and then it’ll open on Wednesday, April 21 – 24th.”

The semester ends the first week of May.  ‘Project Nuremberg’ will end one week before final exams and then after the final exams the kids go home.  But the funny thing is – the students in Lynn’s Drama Program, they don’t want to go home, they really want to stay.  No wonder … look who is leading them into their professional lives – Adam and Carrie Simpson.  Any student would be lucky to have them as mentors.  And any parent, grateful to them for their mentorship.

Ah-hah.  Wait just a moment.  “We do teach acting classes in the summer,” Adam said.  “But we don’t have any productions.”

In fact, Adam and Carrie begin planning their agenda for the following year in March.  They always have something clever up their sleeves.  Just you wait and see. “Right now we’re waiting for more details to come out about the new black box theatre and then we’ll start planning our season around that bit of information.”

As always, look for more unique programming from this admirable couple!

For more information, go to:  www.lynn.edu.

 

=================

Marla E. SchwartzA native of Toledo, OH and a graduate of Kent State, Marla E. Schwartz has been a professional journalist since her teenage years and is a Senior Writer for Miami Living Magazine, and a freelance writer for CRAVINGS South Florida in Aventura, as well as Around Wellington Magazine, Lighthouse Point Magazine, and Pandora.  An avid photographer, her images have appeared in numerous Ohio publications, as well as in Miami Living, The Miami Herald, The Ft. Lauderdale Sun-Sentinel and The Palm Beach Post.  She has had numerous plays published and produced around the country.  Her short play, America’s Working? was originally read at First Stage in Los Angeles and in the same city produced at the Lone Star Ensemble.  It was then produced at Lynn University in Boca Raton, FL and then taken to an Off-Broadway playhouse by its producers Adam and Carrie Simpson.  Her piece, The Lunch Time Café, was a finalist for the Heideman Award, Actors Theatre of Louisville.  Feel free to contact her at: meschwartz1@hotmail.com.

February, 2010 – The Future’s Greatest Challenge

0

Teen TalkEvan Baumel

The Future’s Greatest Challenge

By Evan Baumel

 

When the Cold War ended in 1991, many Americans were optimistic about the future. No foreign country was capable of challenging the economic, social, and political supremacy of the United States. However, as soon as the “Iron Curtain” had fallen, another cold war had begun, this time within America itself. Eventually, a “culture war” erupted that spread throughout the nation. Debate over even the smallest of issues, such as the effects of television on children, sparked strong passions in liberal and conservative corners. Even today, there is a lack of mutual understanding on both sides of the spectrum.

I have noticed that, over the past two decades, the Democratic and Republican parties have embraced the far-left and far-right ideologies, respectively. To me, this is the greatest threat to the foundations that have supported this great country. A clear example of this would be the health care debate during the summer of 2009. Rather than focus on the merits or faults of the legislation being considered, several right-wing Republican groups and prominent figures immediately dismissed the initiative as “socialism.” The Democratic base was not helping itself either. At one Democratic meeting, the organization tried to vote on a resolution urging President Obama to continue to support the “public option”. Almost immediately, far-left hecklers disrupted the meeting, favoring a more radical “single payer” system, which would only allow the government to run health care (legitimizing the far-right’s argument). The meeting became so chaotic that the session had to be dismissed.

I view political extremism as a threat because I know that pragmatic individuals founded this country through compromise. The founding fathers (and mothers) who created this government based it on a few common principles. They agreed on the grounds that this country would be a democratic republic, where the leaders are chosen and take orders from the people. Basic rights such as freedom of speech and religion were not to be infringed. The press would not be censored, affirming Thomas Jefferson’s quote that “when choosing between a government without newspapers or newspapers without a government, I would rather choose the latter.”

Even a few decades ago, the divisions between the parties were not as prevalent. In Barack Obama’s The Audacity of Hope, he recalls the first meeting he had with the longtime Senator Robert Byrd. Mr. Byrd remembers that when he first came to the Capitol, it was not uncommon for Democrats and Republicans to discuss the issues together. As president, Barack Obama tried to reach out to the Republicans, but the Republicans did not cooperate (the Democrats did the same with George W. Bush).

I have found that the greatest American leaders, such as Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln, and Theodore Roosevelt, were usually political moderates. When they needed to solve a problem, they would hear from both sides before making a decision. If anyone wishes to truly solve the nation’s ailments, he or she needs to ignore the partisan bickering and instead listen to every side of the debate.

As the future generation, we must make it our mission to cooperate with people who hold different views from ours. So far, I have seen great progress. At Wellington High School, the Young Democrats and Young Republicans clubs often hold joint meetings for non-partisan speakers. They see it as an effort to reach across the aisle and share ideas that could lead to a better future. It is my hope that the leaders of the next generation refuse to play the same politics as usual and work together to build a better future for our country.

Evan Baumel is a senior at Wellington High School. He’s involved in Debate, National Honor Society, Key Club, politics and writes for the school newspaper.

February, 2010 – Downfalls of the Dumb and Reckless

0

As I Was SayingAlan Williamson

 

Downfalls of the Dumb and Reckless

 

By Alan Williamson

 

       According to reliable sources, when Humpty Dumpty had a big fall it left a kingdom shell shocked for months. Richard Nixon fell mightily, too, as those who figuratively “fall” from power do. Just ask Jim and Tammy Bakker. They had a fall from grace and power, an impressive feat for two otherwise underwhelming famous fallers.

          More recently, disgraced golfing great Tiger Woods kept finding new rock bottoms to hit on his epic fall as the story unfolded that he was cheating on his wife with not one, not two, but multiple mistresses over the course of several years. Mel Brooks once said that “tragedy is when I get a paper cut; comedy is when you slip on a patch of ice and fall down an embankment.” Narcissism aside, Mr. Brooks is a wise observer of life’s peaks and valleys.

          These reflections on falling in all its humbling, tragicomic spectacle came the day after a good old-fashioned face-first fall while running on a paved pedestrian path at the park. Like so many big falls involving humans, it happened with uncanny coincidence right after I nonchalantly overruled the voices of reason and common sense in favor of my own visionary powers as master of my universe.

          Sure, I saw that my left shoelace had come untied, posing an element of danger that could theoretically result in sudden failure to maintain a buffer between my head and the ground. But as long as I’m aware of it, I rationalized, I’m still in control of the situation. Besides, I was almost done with my run and it would be a shame to stop short just to tie a stupid shoelace.

          My ingenious plan seemed to be working flawlessly as I neutralized the loose lace through Zen-like mental awareness and the grace and purity of my running stride. And then it happened. I fell hard and without warning – unless you count my lip getting pinned between the asphalt and my front teeth a warning. In the millisecond it took to pound the pavement with every part of my body except my feet, I knew I was about to become the “after” in a sobering before and after gallery of shoelace-related accident victims.

          As I spooned myself free from my pancake-like embrace with the pedestrian path, a voice rang out.

          “Are you alright?”

          Looking up, I saw a parking lot security guard on patrol in his golf cart who was surveying the carnage of another senseless act of shoelace bloodshed. Perfect, I thought. Because falling down on a sunny afternoon on smooth ground with no obstructions in sight just isn’t as special if there isn’t someone there to see it.

          “I think I’m okay,” I answered tentatively, checking to see if my teeth were where I usually keep them.

          “You went down like you were shot,” the roving security guard noted, barely able to conceal his gratitude for my providing him with a “happening” to share with his wife over dinner.

          “Just a nasty spill,” I assured him. “The only thing injured is my pride.”

          “Your pride looks like it’s bleeding,” he observed. “You want me to call for help?”

          “No, that’s not necessary,” I asserted, pronouncing myself well enough to limp back to my car.

          As I gradually began to take stock of my God-given goodies, I saw that I had the kind of damage that – had I been a car – I could have driven away from the accident scene. I just needed to drive slowly and find a body shop that could put skin-colored paint where mine had come off.  

          Having instinctively thrown my hands out between my face and the rapidly approaching asphalt, I now had several less layers of skin on various parts of my hands and knee.  What you quickly discover is that the loss of several layers of skin has a tendency to make you ooze blood. This tends to make you philosophically divide your life into two distinct periods. There’s the good old days when you had an ample supply of skin, and the living hell that is your life now as a big blood-oozing clod.

          In the end, I was lucky. My teeth were intact behind a fat lip and my wounds began to scab and heal in the passing days. But having fallen hard in the literal sense, I’ve gained wisdom that can benefit even those who have fallen figuratively from their perches of power and grace. To put it succinctly: In the journey of life, those who stay humble seldom stumble. And it’s good to keep your stupid shoelaces tied.      

 

Alan Williamson is an award-winning writer with 27 years in the field of true fiction (advertising). A practical man who knows that writing for a living is risky going, he has taken steps to pursue a second, more stable career as a leggy super model. Alan can be reached at alwilly@bellsouth.net.

February, 2010 – Lost in the Inbox Shuffle?

0

Ultimate Productivity

Claudine Motto, Organization Expert
Claudine Motto, Organization Expert

 

Lost In The Inbox Shuffle? 7 Tips to Write Emails That Stand Out

 

By Claudine Motto

 

Writing emails that quickly and successfully communicate your message is a skill at the heart of effective business communication.  Whether you’re communicating with co-workers, clients, or supervisors, writing an effective email can make the difference between your email being opened and being ignored.  Here are 7 tips to help get your message across:

 

1. MISSION: SUBJECT LINE: Your mission is to craft a subject line that tells the recipient what you want from them, and by when.  What do you need them to DO?  Keep it concise yet descriptive of what’s inside.  A well-crafted subject line helps you find emails quickly later, too.

 

2. SHORT AND SWEET: Ideally an email will touch on one important issue at a time. The key is to effectively communicate that one key issue briefly, and clearly.  Keep paragraphs short, and use bullet points – you have just a few seconds to grab the person’s attention.

 

And when you think you’re done, make it shorter: take a quick look for any “filler” information you can eliminate – keep only the most relevant details.

 

3. BOTTOMS UP: If your email gets opened, the reader will most likely quickly skim the first few sentences – make them count.  Summarize the content of the email, or repeat what you’re asking them or needing them to do, and by when.

 

4. KEEP IT SIMPLE: Avoid or keep to a minimum extravagant fonts, colors, bold, and italics – simple and clean makes it easier for the reader to focus on the message, and not on the frills.

 

5. KNOW YOUR RECIPIENT: Don’t turn the reader off – if you don’t know the person well, use formal greetings and salutations until you have a better sense of how to address them.  With more established relationships, less formal greetings and casual language is acceptable and can create a sense of rapport.

 

Emails are essential in business communication and are a reflection of you and your business – keep them professional.

 

6. DON’T OVEREMAIL: Sending email takes just a few keystrokes, making it tempting to send one each time you have a thought or question about something.  Respect other people’s time – save the tidbits and combine them into one email – people will appreciate it, and you may even find the answer on your own in the meantime.

 

7. THANKS BUT NO THANKS: If you don’t need to hear back, or the email is for information only, say so – it can save the person from replying with just “thanks” or “you’re welcome.”

 

The simpler and more concise your emails, the less time you’ll waste writing them,  the less time the recipient will waste reading them, and the more likely they’ll be to open messages from you.  Plus, you’ll ensure the main point gets across – efficient, and effective.

 

2010 Claudine Motto, All Rights Reserved. 

Productivity Coach and Professional Organizer Claudine Motto helps home office geniuses, entrepreneurs, and independent professionals get organized and in control of their workload so they can reach their goals with less struggle and less stress. She offers one-on-one coaching and group training programs – please visit http://www.vistalnorte.com or call 561-641-9500 for more information, to sign up for her monthly newsletter, or to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation.

 

 

 

February, 2010 – Valentines I Will Not Send

0

Cantankerously YoursWendell Abern

 

Valentines I Will Not Send

 

By Wendell Abern

Dear Bleeding Hearts,

          Yeah, yeah, I know.  Valentine’s Day.  Candy.  Flowers.  Cupids.  All that mushy garbage.

          Every year at this time, I ask myself if my idol, Ebeneezer Scrooge, would deign to send a valentine to anyone.  Clearly, the answer is no.  And I couldn’t agree more.

          In fact, I believe there are some people, companies and institutions who deserve to be omitted from anyone’s valentine list.  I made a list of my own such non-recipients, and it came to 3,462.  For purposes of this column, I have whittled my undeservers down to a manageable five.

          1 – My local super market.

          Wonderful place.  Wonderful selection.  Love going there.

          Until I get in line to pay, and the cashier leaves to go fetch cigarettes for a customer who doesn’t want to wait in the Customer Service line.

          I have mentioned this infuriating practice to all of the store’s managers, complaining that they go out of their way to pander to cigarette users.  They all mouth the company line:  “Sir, we care for each customer equally well.”

         

Well, my store recently installed a suggestion box.  I have been stuffing it with complaints and suggestions every time I shop.  I use different handwritings, different pens, different names, and even deliberately misspell words.  Some of my latest efforts:

          “Who runs this place?  Oh wait, I know.  The same guy who used to run AIG.  Harriet S.”

          “I hate this place!  Your ads say shopping here is a pleasure, and then I wait while some clown sends the cashere for cigarettes.  That’s pleasure by you?  You want pleasure, send your casheres to my boyfriend.  Jennie M.”

          “14 minutes at the deli counter for six slices of ham; 4 minutes waiting for someone to acknowledge my presence at the chicken station; 3 minutes in line to pay; 21 minutes in your store to buy two items.  Just thought I’d thank you for speeding me through your lines and making my trip here such a pleasure.  Jerry G.”

          I was certain no one actually read the suggestions, until last week. 

I was standing in line behind a muscular, good-looking young man, and as he paid, the cashier smiled at him and said, “Are you Jennie’s boyfriend?”

            2 – Ikea.

          Wonderful ads.  Great catalog.  Reasonable prices.  Couldn’t wait to go and size up the place.

          Will never go there again.

          I walked in and a young man offered me a Swedish meatball.  Delicious.  I told him I wanted to look at some furniture.  He directed me to an upstairs escalator.

          On the second floor, I wandered through room after room, looking at chair after sofa after cabinet, and becoming more and more confused by the selection. 

          I had been walking for at least a half-hour and decided I’d had enough.  I started back the way I’d come; with my crack sense of direction,

I couldn’t find the escalators.  I decided to ask an employee how to get back downstairs. 

I couldn’t find an employee.

          I stopped next to a woman and asked, “Is there a salesperson around here somewhere?”

          “What, salesperson?  They don’t have those.  They got nine thousand cashiers and a guy gives out meatballs.”

          I thought, I’m never escaping.  I’m going to have to live here.  I stopped a guy heading my way and told him I couldn’t find the way out.

          He said, “Hey, don’t tell me your problems, Charlie.  I’ve been here since Tuesday.”    

          An elderly woman saw me start to quake, and came to my rescue.  “Just follow me,” she said, escorting me to the escalators.

          “I hope you have something to calm your nerves,” she said as I stepped on the down escalator.

          “I will in a few minutes.  A jumbo hot dog.”

          “That’s not such a good idea.”

          “Okay, two jumbo hot dogs.”         

By that time, the escalator had reached the ground floor.  I ran to the exit doors.

          3, 4 & 5 – Karen, Emily and Nancy.

          Three wonderful women.  Beautiful.  Compassionate.  Thoughtful.   Caring.  Very bright.  Lots of fun.   

          Except they don’t know how to eat.

          These three ladies invited me to have lunch with them after services  one recent Sunday (Unitarian Universalist congregation:  River of Grass). 

Lunch with three beautiful women!  Terrific idea!  Very flattering!  I did feel a little weird, however, when we walked through Toojay’s Deli and I “disappeared.”  See, you follow three beautiful women through a restaurant,

 you suddenly become The Invisible Man.  I mean, no one in that restaurant knew I was there; in fact, no one even knew I existed.

          When we ordered, things got even worse.

          Karen began by asking for a Reuben Sandwich without corned beef.

          “What!” I shouted.  “You can’t do that!  That’s like ordering a cheeseburger without the burger!”

          “Pay no attention to him,” Karen told the waitress.  “Bring me the Reuben with the cheese, the sauerkraut, the Russian Dressing, everything; just hold the corned beef.”

          I segued into my most effective churlish frown until Emily ordered. 

A chicken salad plate.   I felt somewhat mollified.

          “But substitute tofu for the chicken,” Emily said.

          “What!” I yelled.  “What, tofu?  This is a deli, for God’s sake!  You’re supposed to leave here with heartburn and a cholesterol problem!”

          “Pay no attention to him,” Emily said, smiling at me sweetly.  I scowled in return.   

          Then Nancy ordered a chef’s salad with no bacon and no turkey.

          “Help!” I yelled.  “Somebody, help!  I’m trapped in a booth with aliens from the planet Vegetarius!”

          “Pay no attention to him,” Nancy said.  “Bring me the honey mustard dressing on the side.”

          The waitress turned to me and said, “What can I get you, sir?”

I said, “I’d like a Seaweed Casserole.  Hold the lily pads.”

          In unison, Karen, Emily and Nancy said, “Pay no attention to him.”  Then Karen said, “Bring him a brisket sandwich on rye with a latke.  That should keep him quiet for a while.”

          Nancy said, “We want to keep him quiet for a while, we better order two latkes for him.”

          They all smiled sweetly at me.

          Later, as I finished my second latke, I thought … I’m eating lunch with three beautiful women!  I’m the luckiest guy on the planet!  And even though they don’t know how to eat properly, I can’t wait to do it again.

          However, I refuse to send any of them a valentine.

          Cantankerously Yours,

          Wendell Abern

Wendell Abern can be reached at dendyabern@comcast.net.    

February, 2010 – For the Love of Pets

0

Pet TalkFrances Goodman

 

For the Love of Pets

by Frances Goodman

 

Love, love, love. What is it really?

Aside from the romantic view, here is one description found in the dictionary:

“Affectionate concern for the well-being of others….”

Noted author Eric Fromm went to great lengths to define it in his book, The Art of Loving.

Although I disagree with much of his overall philosophy, I do like his definition of what real love must include:

Care (about), Responsibility (toward), Respect (for) and Knowledge (about) another.

Note that emotion is not in the list. Nor are the attributes of the recipient. According to Fromm, these are all things that should emanate from the character of the one who does the loving.

Pets and people who receive this kind of love are most fortunate.

 

Unconditional

Then there’s the special kind of love that dogs give us — the unconditional kind.

In other words, a steadfast loyalty that is also based on the character of the giver rather than the receiver.

An accepting love that simply is.

English author Jerome K. Jerome is remembered for putting it this way:

“A dog never makes it his business to inquire whether you are in the right or in the wrong, rich or poor, silly or wise. Come luck or misfortune, good repute or bad, he is going to stick to you.”

 

More on Dogs

Here are more quotes on the subject:

From Celia Haddon, English pet columnist and author: “A loving friendship, formed over thousands of years, flourishes between dogs and human beings. Dogs have left the hunting pack of their ancestors and become members of our human world.”

From M. Acklam: “We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It’s the best deal man has ever made.”

Here are some excerpts from “Dog Haiku.” It came in one of those emails that circulate among pet lovers:

“How do I love thee?

“The ways are as numberless as

“My hairs on the rug.

“Dig under the fence — why?

“Because it is there. Because it’s

“There. Because it’s there.

“Look in my eyes and

“Deny it. No human could

“Love you as much as I do.”

 

Meow!

When it comes to cats, not too many humans have been motivated to write about the unconditional love of cats. However, they are quite capable of giving non-judgmental loyalty and affection, even though a few conditions may be attached.

Here are some thoughts from those who have had cats and loved them:

“One small cat changes coming home to an empty house to coming home.” – Pam Brown.

And from Cleveland Amory, author of The Cat Who Came for Christmas:

“As anyone who has ever been around a cat for any length of time well knows, cats have enormous patience with the limitations of the human kind.”

Here’s wishing you real love – the ability to give it as well as the good fortune of receiving it.

 

Frances Goodman is a professional dog trainer and pet care writer who lives in Royal Palm Beach. Got a question? Email her at fhpettalk@hotmail.com. Or click her ad below to visit her website, www.mypetnews.com.

For Obediance Training, call (561) 792-8224.

February, 2010 – AW in Pictures

Just a few highlights of happenings Around Wellington. For many more photos, visit the link “Photo Galleries” on this site!

Ronald McDonald helps a young Komen racer with spinning the ball.
Ronald McDonald helps a young Komen racer with spinning the ball.
Tracie Biery, a survivor, of team "Life is Good" walks proudly with the 1st place plunger on her head - for best decorated Tickled Pink Potty.
Tracie Biery, a survivor, of team "Life is Good" walks proudly with the 1st place plunger on her head - for best decorated Tickled Pink Potty.
Scouts were cheering and wheels were spinning as Wellington Cub Scout Pack 125 held their annual Pinewood Derby at St. Peters Methodist Church on January 16. Den Leader David O’Donnell led over 50 scouts who were racing their homemade wooden kit cars for the grand prize. Photo by Lois Spatz.
Scouts were cheering and wheels were spinning as Wellington Cub Scout Pack 125 held their annual Pinewood Derby at St. Peters Methodist Church on January 16. Den Leader David O’Donnell led over 50 scouts who were racing their homemade wooden kit cars for the grand prize. Photo by Lois Spatz.

 

Newly inducted players in the Wycliffe Stiffs Stickball Hall of Fame
Newly inducted players in the Wycliffe Stiffs Stickball Hall of Fame. Also see "Photo Galleries" and "Videos" on aroundwellington.com for more of their Hall of Fame ceremony.

January, 2010 – Women’s Self Defense Seminar

0

WOMEN’S SELF DEFENSE SEMINAR

·       

LEARN HOW TO MAKE IT OUT ALIVE YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE A VICTIM

·         

OVERCOME YOUR FEARS AND PERSEVERE

·         

PREVENT ASSAULTS AND AVOID ENCOUNTERS OF THE WORST KIND

·         

 

PRICE: 1-19 PEOPLE – 15.00 PER PERSON

             20 + PEOPLE – 10.00 PER PERSON

·         

Bring your friends, family and neighbors!

All females All Ages are invited!!

·         

Your Instructor holds black belts in 2 different styles of karate and is working towards his 3rd. He is an ex-Marine, prior certified law enforcement, and is currently the chapter leader for The Palm Beach County Guardian Angels and has been with the Guardian Angels since 1989.

 

Richard”Bulldog”Head

Guardian Angels Chapter Leader

Palm Beach County,FL

561-719-8849

February, 2010 – Dare to Care…Guardian Angels

0

DONATIONS NEEDED

   February 13th marks the anniversary of the Guardian Angels.  For over 31 years now, with over 5,000 members in over 12 different countries this non-profit organization has helped many in need.  We are asking everyone to reach out so once again the Guardian Angels can help local families in need.  Donations we are asking for are: 

*FOOD                          *BABY DIAPERS
*WATER                       *DOG FOOD
*FIRST AID KITS        *PAPER GOODS
*CANDLES                  *TOILETRIES
*BATTERIES               *CANNED GOODS

     If you know of any business or person willing to give gift cards, cash donations or free meals please contact the Guardian Angels at (561)719-8849.

            “Lets help those who need us”
                   www.GuardianAngels.org
                      (501C-non-profit organization)
                email: PBGuardianangels@yahoo.com

March, 2010 – Kick-Off of 2010 Women in Business Series

0

PALMS WEST CHAMBER KICKS OFF 2010 WOMEN IN BUSINESS SERIES AT

DILLARD’S WELLINGTON GREEN

 

 

The Palms West Chamber is pleased to announce the return of its Women in Business series beginning in March.  The program was formed to bring  women together in a forum designed to foster and support the development of professional and personal relationships while also providing networking opportunities through educational and cultural activities.

 

Dillard’s, located at the Mall at Wellington Green, 10304 West Forest Hill Boulevard in Wellington, will be the host for the first  Women in Business event of 2010, on Thursday, March 11 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m.   Guests will enjoy delicious hors d’hoeuvres and beverages while Dillard’s provides an in-store fashion presentation featuring their latest Spring collections appropriate for the Florida woman executive and business owner.  Glamorous after-five fashions and fun weekend attire will also be featured.   Dillard’s experienced cosmeticians will do demonstrations and provide makeovers for the attendees.  As a parting gift, guests will receive a discount certificate to be used at Dillard’s in the following weeks.

 

This is a pre-payable event.  The cost to Chamber members is $25 and $40 for non-Chamber members.  To make a reservation and pay on line visit  www.palmswest.com  and simply click on the Woman in Business icon.    For further information on the event, call Anitra Harmon or Maureen Gross at the Palms West Chamber office at 561-790-6200.

 

The Palms West Chamber of Commerce is the regional chamber for the west central communities of Wellington, Royal Palm Beach, Greenacres, Loxahatchee Groves and the Acreage/Loxahatchee