Korey’s Krew

An Inspiring Group

By Krista Martinelli

After a few challenges in getting out and getting to his favorite concerts and events, young Korey Soderman got organized about having fun. As a differently-abled, extremely-bright teenager, Korey gets around using a motor wheelchair, communicates using hand gestures and a voice computer, and succeeds in doing so much more than he was ever expected to do as a young child diagnosed with cerebral palsy.

“Getting out and meeting new people who are differently-abled is what it’s all about,” explains Korey. Korey’s Krew is a non-profit, charitable organization with the mission of providing children and adults with special needs the opportunity to attend local fairs, festivals, concerts and sporting events. Korey’s Krew provides tickets to such events, as well as any meals or other services needed. All Krew members and companions wear Korey’s Krew t-shirts and hats, supplied by Korey’s Krew. It’s a great way for differently-abled teens and young adults to meet and have fun together at amazing events. The group was founded in the spring of 2007 by Tom Shea, a friend of the Soderman family.

Korey’s twin brother Kyle attends college on the west coast of Florida. They are the sons of Wendy and Kris Soderman, founders of the highly-acclaimed Ideal Elementary and Dream Middle School in Royal Palm Beach. But that’s another story, a good one (see the August, 2007 edition of Around Wellington Magazine).

          Founder Tom Shea organizes an annual golf tournament at Bear Lakes, which includes music and food afterwards for all participants to enjoy. However, due to the challenges of the economy, they skipped the past year.

Korey’s love for music and entertainment started early in life. In fact, according to his family, he is on this earth because of a Kenny Loggins song. The song “This is it” by Kenny Loggins inspired the Sodermans to make the choice to save Korey by performing an emergency C-section when Korey went into distress in the womb at just 32-weeks gestation. The decision was not an easy one, as it put the life of his otherwise healthy twin brother at risk. This inspirational story was presented on national TV in an A&E documentary in 2004. The documentary (with an introduction by actor Robert Downey, Jr.) can now be viewed on the Ideal and Dream School website, www.dreamideal.com.

          What are other things that Korey likes to do? Most importantly, he is a big fan of live shows. He loves a wide variety of musical artists, with Three Doors Down and Simple Plan being a couple of his favorites. As long it’s live, whether it’s sporting events, plays, music, Korey loves to be there. He stays active and rides a tricycle. He always looks forward to competing in the Special Olympics. He’s also been a DJ for various events, putting his musical taste and talents to work. And like most teens, he is on his computer a great deal of the time – emailing, instant messaging, Skyping and just surfing the Web.

          According to Korey, the biggest misconception people have about disabilities is simple, but frustrating. “People don’t think you’re smart, just because you’re disabled.”  

          Korey’s Krew offers a way for differently-abled teens and young adults to get  together, see live shows and overcome those misconceptions that people sometimes have about disabilities.

Korey’s Krew accepts donations, large or small, and all proceeds go to the kids.  If you would like to support Korey’s mission, please send a check to: Korey’s Krew, 13833 Wellington Trace E4 – 171,  Wellington, FL,  33414, with tax exempt ID number 20-8869999.  For more information, visit www.koreyskrew.com.

Local cleaning service helps cancer patients

Kingdom Kleaning Gives Back to Those in Need

You know that feeling of dread when you come home to a house in dire need of a cleaning? You may put it off for another day or mutter to yourself as you take care of the laundry, dishes and vacuuming. Imagine how it feels to a person who has spent the day at a hospital being treated for an insidious disease like cancer.

Thanks to the efforts of folks like the West Palm Beach resident Barry Swett, many local cancer patients are coming home to a clean house after their treatments. Barry is part of a dedicated group called Cleaning for a Reason.

Started in Texas in 2006, the foundation is the brainchild of Deborah Sardone of Lewisville. Through her cleaning company, Buckets & Bows Maid Service, Sardone decided to help ease the stress of women dealing with cancer by helping them with some of the everyday chores that can seem insurmountable when they are trying to beat the dreaded disease. What was once a one-company service has branched out across the country, and now 415 cleaning services participate.

Barry & Beth, owners of Kingdom Kleaning, are no strangers to dirt. They have been the owners/managers of their company for nine years. Although they do commercial work, they specialize in residential house cleaning. Beth says that taking care of home cleaning for cancer patients is second nature to her. Long before they heard of Cleaning for a Reason, she said they had offered her services free of charge to folks she knew were dealing with hardship. When she learned of the foundation in June, it was a natural progression for them to join in.

“This particularly hit home,” says Barry. “I lost my father to brain cancer. For a lot of people, there is no one to help out. This means so much.”

Barry said the cleaning companies that join the foundation help support it through both their free cleaning services and other donations. The nonprofit group offers an 800-number for women in treatment to call. The members help pay for that toll free number along with all of the cleaning supplies and the working hours. There is absolutely no fee to the clients.

“You know how it feels to come home when your house is a mess,” Beth said. “Imagine coming home to that when you have to go for treatments. With Cleaning for a Reason, now they are able to find us.”

The foundation matches qualified patients with cleaning services in their area. The foundation currently only serves women in need. The only qualification is that the patient’s doctor verifies the person is undergoing cancer treatments. Service companies commit to four cleanings per client.

Cleaning for a Reason is seeking corporate sponsors in an effort to increase the availability and frequency of its services.

Kingdom Kleaning sends out two employees that work together and provide three man-hours per visit to each home.

“It’s a general cleaning,” he said. “We’re there once a month. It gets them by. We’re there for four months as they are going through their treatments. It doesn’t matter how much money you make, only that you are going through treatment.”

Barry said he hopes to see other local cleaning companies join the foundation.

“We need cleaning companies to help out,” he said. “Donations are helpful too. These cleaning companies that are already involved are doing this just because it’s what we do best; help keep homes clean and give the home owner a sense of order in their universe.”

For further information on Cleaning for a Reason, log on to http://www.cleaningforareason.org/ or call 877~337~3348. For information on Kingdom Kleaning go to kingdomkleaning.net or call 561~333~3356.

Finding Balance in a Demanding World

By Claudine Motto

Finding balance is difficult when the demands on our time never stop. We need to give our attention to our businesses or careers, to our relationships and loved ones, and somewhere in between, to ourselves.

When we lack the proper attention in any one of those areas, we feel like something’s missing, like we’re spinning our wheels.  But “proper” attention means something different to each individual – here are 7 steps to help you define what true balance means for you, and how to work towards it:

1. Define the areas in your life that feel out of balance

Brainstorm all the “should’s” that have been swimming around in your head.  Don’t censor yourself – write down everything you feel you’ve been neglecting.  And be honest – if you don’t want to write something down it’s a good sign you need to deal with it sooner rather than later.

2. Scrutinize the list for things you don’t really want to be doing

Put a star next to any items you don’t really want to do, but feel like you should do out of guilt, or pressure.  What do you need to do to get that item off your list?

If you’re saying “yes” to avoid what you find uncomfortable, like delegating, asking for help (or just saying “no”) put your energy into learning how to do those things – these are skills that will help you honor your wants and needs long-term.

3. Scrutinize the list for your real wants

Now take a look at the things you’ve been neglecting that you do want to do, and group them together under broader categories.  For example, getting your tax receipts system in order and looking into life insurance could go under “Finances,”  losing 20 pounds and making an appointment to have a dental checkup could go under “Health.” And starting a social media campaign and doing more speaking engagements could go under “Work.”

Aim for as few categories as possible that represent a balanced life to you – fewer categories will be easier to manage and to work into your life. 

4. Define just one change

Take only your top 3-5 categories to work on – the reality is that you won’t have time to do everything you want to do, so it is key to prioritize, be realistic, and forgive yourself for not being Superman or Superwoman.

Then, define ONE major change you can make in each of those areas that would get you closer to what you would like.  And make sure to make the changes/goals measurable – so avoid words like “more” or “less” – define how much more, how much less, and how often.

If the change is difficult, or overwhelming, then get help – whatever it takes to move FORWARD.

6. You need more than time to make changes

In the book “The Power of Full Engagement” (by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz) the authors’ core message is that you need to balance work and stress with recovery – the harder the work and the stress, the harder your body and mind need to recover to renew the energy.  And it makes sense – energy is power – it affects everything. 

So the next time you find yourself thinking that you need to push through a few more hours, push yourself to stop, and renew. And take care of your energy with proper nutrition and sleep.

7. Avoid all or nothing thinking

This type of thinking is rooted in perfectionism – if you can’t work out for a full hour, or 4 times a week, you don’t work out at all. Or if you can’t organize your whole office or closet in one day, you don’t start at all.

Start doing less and work on being OK with that – go to the gym for an intense 10 minutes if that’s all you can really fit in that week; organize just your supplies, or your jeans.

That doesn’t mean you don’t consistently strive to meet the goals you set, but be kind with yourself when you don’t.

Balancing all the demands of life is an imperfect process that takes work and never truly “ends.” But when you define balance by your rules, you set the stage for true productivity and fulfillment.

© 2009 Claudine Motto

Productivity Coach and Professional Organizer Claudine Motto helps home office geniuses, entrepreneurs, and independent professionals get organized so they can reach their goals with less struggle and less stress.  She offers one-on-one coaching and group training programs – please visit http://www.vistalnorte.com or call 561-641-9500 for more information, to sign up for her monthly newsletter, or to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation.

This Halloween, award-winning mixologist Victoria D’Amato-Moran has created three specialty recipes to toast the night. Inspired by Midori’s ghoulishly green coloring, these haunting treats are as festive as they are delicious.

Serve up a harvest themed punch by mixing the seasonal flavors of cranberry and apple juice with Midori and rum. Or opt for sophisticated cocktail recipes like the Midori Green Ghoul and Midori Spider’s Kiss – a festive, vibrant addition to any bar or Halloween table setting.

Midori Halloween Harvest

1 part Midori Melon Liqueur

1 part Dark Rum

1 part Light Rum

2 part White Cranberry Juice

1 part Unfiltered Apple Juice

1 part Simple Syrup

Juice of one lemon

*For a Punch Bowl (32 ounces) use this recipe X’s 8. Add the liquid ingredients and mix well. Top with apple slices, blueberries, and melon balls.

Or mix Midori mixed with ginger liqueur in a glass decorated with black licorice for a touch of style and sophistication.

Midori Green Ghoul

1 part Midori Melon Liqueur

½ part Strega Liqueur or Yellow Chartreuss

½ part Canton Ginger liqueur

Ginger Beer or Ginger Ale

Add first 3 ingredients into a shaker glass, add ice, shake, strain over ice in a collins glass.  Line the inside of the glass with strands of black licorice.  Pour in contents of shaker and fill with ginger beer or ginger ale.

Or serve up a tasty web chocolate, grenadine, vodka and Midori with the Midori Spider’s Kiss cocktail.

Midori’s Spider’s Kiss

1 part Midori Melon Liqueur

1 part SKYY Vodka

Juice from ½ Lemon

Chocolate syrup

Grenadine

With chocolate syrup, draw a web on the inside of the martini glass.  Chill glass.  Shake Midori, SKYY and lemon juice with ice and strain into martini glass. Drizzle grenadine down the side for a blood effect.

About Victoria

Victoria D’Amato Moran, San Francisco native, started in the restaurant business in 1984, working under Jeremiah Tower, at his 4-star restaurant, Stars.

The daughter of a north beach bartender, and directly related to the historic fishing industry at the Fisherman’s Warf, D’Amato-Moran’s family was always cooking, making wine, grappa’s and vinegar, so naturally, she grew up in the kitchen. Finding herself managing a bar for her cousin in North Beach, in 2000, she knew bartending and inventing new drinks would be her art.

When D’Amato-Moran entered and won her first drink competition in 2003, she was hooked. Eight successful competitions later, she continues to thrive on visualizing and creating delicious and beautiful drinks. D’Amato-Moran has been recognized for her work in Santé Magazine, Wine Enthusiast, San Francisco Magazine, and is a bi-monthly cocktail contributor to Un Buona Salute Italian Magazine.