You can take the man out of soccer, but you cannot take soccer out of the man. That’s one way to summarize the attitude about soccer for longtime Wellington resident Alan Tonks who is as passionate and mentally connected to the game of soccer in his 70s as he was as a young boy while growing up in England. Admittedly, Tonks hasn’t played in an organized soccer game in more than 55 years, but he remains strongly attached to the sport. Last summer’s Euro 2020 (Soccer) Championships, which were delayed until 2021 because of the global outbreak of COVID-19 in 2020, revealed his true passion for the sport. For him, soccer is football. It always has been and always will be.
“I watched every game of the tournament that I possibly could,” said Tonks. “It was an amazing display of skill, speed, and strategy. I only wish England could have won.”
England reached the final of the Euro 2020 Championships. The finale pitted England vs. Italy. The game was played on Sunday, July 11, 2021 at London’s Wembley Stadium. The game was tied 1-1 after regulation and remained tied through extra time. Italy eventually defeated England 3-2 in penalty kicks. It was a gut-wrenching defeat for England (and Tonks), as England was hoping to win its first international tournament since defeating Germany 4-3 in the final of the 1966 World Cup, which was held at the old Wembley Stadium in London.
As they say in sports, wait till next year. Next year is this year, 2022, when the World Cup returns. It will be played in Qatar. Tonks remains optimistic that England will prevail this year. Only time will tell.
Tonks’ passion for soccer, er football, started before he attended elementary school, which, in England, is called primary school.
“It was just after my father had returned from World War II,” remembered Tonks. “I was three years old and my dad would take me outside to kick the football around.”
His passion for soccer, er football, has never wavered and remains strong.
“I used to dream about playing for England and I would go to sleep at night with a soccer ball in my bed,” recalled Tonks. “In England, football was a fever. It still is. Every community and social group has a team.”
When Tonks started going to elementary school at Ridpool Road School in Birmingham, England, he played in pick-up games with friends and classmates. Despite being the shortest, slimmest, and often being chosen last, he continued to play. He was not a prolific goal scorer, but he was a good facilitator and defender. He could move and pass the ball with his feet just as basketball players control the ball with their hands.
“I ended up being a pretty good player and they put me at left halfback even though I was not naturally left-footed,” said Tonks, chuckling.
For Tonks, perseverance eventually paid off in a big way.
At age 15, he wanted to play at a higher level so he mailed letters of introduction to the top professional soccer clubs in the English Midlands: Birmingham City FC, Aston Villa FC, West Bromwich Albion FC, and the Wolverhampton Wanderers FC, aka, the Wolves. Birmingham City responded and Tonks signed an agreement with that club.
“Teenagers like myself were hoping to make, at best, 20 pounds a week (today’s equivalent of nearly $60), but I didn’t make that much,” said Tonks. “I was given a place to play football, a jersey to wear, and they gave me enough money to pay for the daily round-trip bus fare. In addition to playing, my other main job with the club was to help the grounds staff take care of the club’s main playing field.”
While Tonks was delighted to be on Birmingham City FC’s depth chart, his father was not happy.
“My dad went berserk because he thought I was going to drop out of school,” added Tonks. “I was never going to quit school. In fact, it was the exact opposite. I signed up for additional classes and extended my schooling for an extra year.”
Tonks was immediately assigned to play for Saltley, one of Birmingham City’s squads for developing players. It didn’t take long for Tonks to get moved up to a higher level squad: the Aldridge Old Boys. Tonks and his teammates played in the Combination League, the soccer equivalent of baseball’s minor leagues.
While playing for Saltley and the Aldridge Old Boys, he traveled to Europe to play matches in many European countries. He also played a few matches at London’s old Wembley Stadium on its well-manicured and maintained turf.
“Playing on the turf at Wembley was heavenly,” said Tonks.
And, he was still going to school.
“Throughout the season, we’d sometimes play as many as three matches a week,” said Tonks. “And, of course, we’d play every Saturday.”
By today’s standards, Tonks suffered because of a lack of proper footwear, bad training facilities, not enough proper nutrition by today’s standards, inconsistent coaching, and inadequate sports medicine supplies. As a result, Tonks’ body broke down, especially his knees, and he was out of the game by the time he turned 21.
“My knees were not in good shape,” said Tonks. “My body had taken a beating.”
Soon thereafter, he emigrated to the U.S., where soccer was only played in pockets of the U.S. inhabited by immigrants from Europe and Central and South America.
He remained emotionally connected to soccer, but his points of contact within the U.S. soccer community were ‘hit and miss.’
“I was approached about being a player for the Baltimore Bays, one of the early teams in the old North American Soccer League,” remembered Tonks. “I went to three or four practices, but I couldn’t run because of cartilage problems in my knees. And, there were so many nationalities and languages represented by the many players. It made on-the-field communication very difficult.”
He did play briefly for a soccer team sponsored by a bank in Baltimore, but that experience was short-lived.
Still, his interest in the game and passion for the sport have remained in place.
And, because of his soccer-ball kicking prowess, he was given a chance by the NFL’s Baltimore Colts to come to training camp to try out as a placekicker in the mid-1960s. He had never kicked an American football, but he felt the kicking similarities between a soccer ball and football were fundamentally the same.
“It was the beginning of the era of NFL teams signing European soccer-style kickers to contracts,” added Tonks.
So, he purchased some new cleats and showed up at McDonough High School in Baltimore where the Colts were practicing. The head coach was Weeb Eubank. Some of the players were legends and future NFL Hall of Famers: Johnny Unitas, Alan Ameche, Jimmy Orr, Raymond Berry, and Art Donovan.
“I didn’t make the team, but I made a few field goals during the tryout,” said Tonks. “It was fun while it lasted.”
Truth be told, not many athletes have ever played soccer at the old Wembley Stadium and participated in an NFL training camp. But, Wellington’s Alan Tonks has. He may be the only man alive in Palm Beach County – at least in Wellington — who has those two athletic experiences on his resume.
Today, when Tonks watches soccer on television, his player instincts remain intact.
“My legs twitch and I know when and where the ball should be kicked,” said Tonks.
When Tonks reflects on his soccer past, he knows that he was blessed to have met, practiced with, played with, and played against some of the game’s great players such as Irish international Danny Blanchflower, German goalkeeper Bert Troutman, and England great Jimmy Greaves.
Tonks also has strong memories of watching English soccer legend Stanley Matthews, the ‘Wizard of the Dribble,’ lead Blackpool to the championship of the 1953 FA Cup when Blackpool defeated the Bolton Wanderers, 4-3. Tonks says that Matthews, who played on the right wing, was so good in that 1953 FA Cup final that the match was referred to as “Matthews Final.”
“Matthews was brilliant that day and his performance was worthy of being included on the news reels at the time,” said Tonks.
When he was a teenager, he also met Brazilian soccer legend Pele when the Brazilian national team paid a visit to London in the late 1950s.
Pele
As great as some of those past legends – which also include England’s Bobby Charlton and Northern Ireland’s George Best — may have been, Tonks feels as if they cannot compare with today’s soccer superstars.
“The physical fitness and ball control exhibited by today’s players is brilliant and the science behind the sport is amazing,” said Tonks. “Today’s soccer players are better athletes than their peers of 60 and 70 years ago plus the facilities are better and the athletes have access to more advanced equipment.”
When he watches soccer matches on television, he loves watching the games from Europe, specifically the English Premier League, the Bundesliga in Germany, and the Serie A in Italy.
Clearly, Tonks’ enthusiasm for soccer remains strong and passionate.
Without a doubt, Alan Tonks truly personifies the expression: You can take the man out of soccer, but you cannot take soccer out of the man.
Krista Martinelli of AroundWellington.com and Aimee Weisberger Stern of the Mom’s Club of Wellington FL.Brunch in Olympia for Tony Nelson’s campaign on 3/6/22.Wellington’s Judy Litner in ItalyThe Council of Dads and The Wellington Wolves could not have had this most amazing result on Saturday, 3/5/22 without the help of friends, family, and members of the community. 2760 pairs of shoes donated to those in need at the In Jacobs Shoes Foundation.Harold’s Universe illustration by Ingrid Webster
Wellington, FL (February 24, 2022) – Temple Beth Torah, in recognition of the remarkable contributions of two of its esteemed members, Todd and Debra Barron, will host their annual gala on March 19, 2022. The Temple Beth Torah 2022 Gala Service Award will be presented to Todd and Debra for their dedicated time and service to both the temple and preschool.
The gala will be held at the Village of Wellington Community Center Lake Promenade in Wellington. This outdoor event will feature a silent auction, dancing, casino games as well as food, wine, and cocktails. Join us for a fabulous evening honoring Todd & Debra and raising money for Temple Beth Torah, a family of families! More information can be found on the Gala’s website: https://templebethtorah.net/2022gala/. Tickets can be purchased online or by contacting the Temple directly at: 561.793.2700.
The theme of Temple Beth Torah’s gala this year is Denim & Diamonds, to honor the outdoor venue and the diamond-level service Todd and Debra have provided TBT. Guests will enjoy festive entertainment, a variety of wines and specialty cocktails, and delicious and diverse cuisine provided by various food trucks. This is a unique opportunity for temple members, preschool parents, and friends from the local community to come together for a night of fun and fundraising.
Todd and Debra Barron
Todd and Debra Barron served as the Temple Beth Torah Gala committee chairpersons for four years. They are the reason we have this wonderful event today! Temple member attendance increased considerably each year the Barons were at the helm. Their work is celebrated and honored as it has impacted our Temple immensely!
Todd Barron graduated from the University of Florida with a B.A. in business administration in 1996. He has worked as a financial advisor since that time. Todd has always been passionate about giving back to the community through volunteerism and philanthropy. He has served as President of the board of the Boys and Girls Club of Wellington and was the founder and former President of the board of the Young Friends of the Palm Beach Symphony. He volunteers his time to numerous event committees, and his unique skills as an auctioneer to many charity organizations in the area including Maltz Jupiter Theatre, Boys and Girls Club, Transplant Foundation, Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation and Habitat for Humanity. In 2015, Todd was honored with the Community Impact Award from the Young Professionals of Wellington. Todd loves to travel with his wife Debra and their two daughters, Sarah and Lilah. Todd and Debra were married in 2006 and have been members of the Temple Beth Torah congregation since they moved to Wellington in 2007.
Debra graduated from the University of Florida with a B.M. in Music Education in 2001. She was an elementary music teacher in downtown Lake Worth for the ten years following her graduation. During her time as a music educator, she became passionate about grant writing and raising money to provide underprivileged children with a comprehensive instrumental music education program. She received a grant from VH1 Save the Music Foundation to start an elementary band program and wrote additional grants to create a band camp at Florida Atlantic University that was free to her students. Her work with underprivileged students inspired her to pursue an M.S. in School Counseling, which she attained in 2007. Debra worked as a middle school guidance counselor prior to having her two daughters, Sarah and Lilah. When she returned to work in 2016, she took on the role of high school guidance counselor. In this position she dedicated herself to creating programs that promoted college awareness to first generation American students and scholarship opportunities for all students in Wellington and the surrounding areas. Debra’s greatest joy has been watching her daughter’s Sarah and Lilah grow up. She especially cherished the many years the girls spent at the Temple Beth Torah Pre-School.
The event will be made possible by the generosity of Presenting Sponsor: Irene and Joel Levine
Ruby Sponsors: Micheal and Brenna Barron, Todd and Debra Barrom
Topaz Sponsor: Ellen and Steve Shapiro
In- Kind Sponsors: Agliolio
Additional sponsorship opportunities are available for those interested in underwriting this worthwhile event.
The Gala committee looks forward to a night of celebration and fundraising on March 19, 2022. Todd and Debra will be enthusiastically highlighted for their dedication to TBT both past and present. The Temple community will have the opportunity to recognize and thank them all for their contributions to its continued success.
(Delray Beach, FL – February 28, 2022) Marjorie Waldo, President & CEO of Arts Garage, today promoted four upcoming shows and special presentations in March and April:
Sunday, March 20, at 7 pm
Helen Miller Live
Nationally known gospel recording artist and ordained minister, Helen Miller-Best, transports listeners back to the way church “used to be”, with hand-clapping, foot-tapping praise. Backed by a band and singers, she will play songs presented with brief testimonies and quotes from the Bible inserted between and during songs to encourage listeners. This live concert presentation is very energetic and includes clapping, stomping, and dancing to the music as singers give praise to God. Hailed as “The Gospel Whirlwind,” Miller was raised in a Boynton Beach family of gospel singers and started singing in church at the age of four, She is now a devoted mother, grandmother, and is the ordained co-pastor of both El Bethel Church in North Carolina and the Bible Teachers International Ministries in Fort Lauderdale, FL.
Tickets: $30 & $35
Fridays, March 25 & April 29, at 8 pm
Garage Queens
Back by Delicious and Divine Demand, the Fierce, Fabulous and Fascinating Garage Queens on the last Friday of every month in 2022. These jaw-dropping, crowd-tickling, glitter-glowing shows will be hosted by the inimitably exquisite “Diva, Icon and Legend” Ariel Rimm, and will feature some of South Florida’s most electrifying drag entertainers, such asRianna Petrone on March 25 and Sasha Lords on April 29, along with special surprise guests, all stunningly coiffed and bedecked.
Tickets: $35 & $40
Thursday, April 21 at 7 pm
Dr. Ralina L. Joseph, PhD & Dr. Allison Briscoe-Smith, PhD
Generation Mixed Goes to School:
Radically Listening to Multiracial Kids
As part of its popular Authors Speak Series 2022, Arts Garage is presenting Dr. Ralina L. Joseph, a scholar, teacher, and facilitator of race and communication, who is also Presidential Term Professor of Communication, founding and acting Director of the Center for Communication, Difference, and Equity, and Associate Dean of Equity and Justice in Graduate Programs at the University of Washington, Seattle. In addition to two previous works, last year she co-authored with Dr.Allison Briscoe-Smith the book Generation Mixed Goes to School: Radically Listening to Multiracial Kids.This book weaves together stories of mixed-race children and youth, teachers, and caregivers and investigates how implicit bias affects multiracial kids in unforeseen ways. In addition, it breaks out of the Black/White binary to include the perspective of mixed-race children from Asian American, Latinx, and Native American backgrounds and provides stories, academic research, and tangible exercises that together create the opportunity for meaningful anti-racist change. Dr. Briscoe-Smith is currently the Director of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at the Wright Institute in Berkeley, California where she is a professor. To RSVP for this free Authors Speak event, please register at https://artsgarage.org/event/authors-speak-the-impact-of-race-on-american-society-3/
How to Get Tickets to Helen Miller Live and Garage Queens:
Tickets are available by calling Arts Garage at 561.450.6357 or by going online to www.ArtsGarage.org.
About Arts Garage:
Arts Garage delivers innovative, diverse, meaningful and accessible visual and performing arts experiences to Delray Beach and South Florida. “Connecting our community to the world through the Arts”—this vision drives all decision-making at Arts Garage, which brings local, emerging artists and established global performers into the local multi-cultural community (students and adults, locals and tourists, people of all ages, income levels, backgrounds) who share a love of the arts.
Diversity is a hallmark of Arts Garage, which provides multicultural programming that promotes inclusion in the arts. #DiscoverDiversity isn’t just a tagline—it is the cornerstone of our outreach programs, staffing, and marketing. Arts Garage is located at 94 NE 2nd Avenue in Delray Beach’s popular Pineapple Grove (33444). For more information, please call 561.450.6357 or visit www.artsgarage.org.
The Butterfly Project – Remembrance and Hope – Sundays, March 27 & April 24 at Temple Beth Tikvah, 4550 Jog Rd, Greenacres. Remember the children lost in the Holocaust. Purchase a butterfly kit at $10 per kit. Teach the next generation about the children who perished by painting together butterflies on March 27, 10:30am – 12:30pm. Finished butterflies will be placed in The Remembrance Garden at Temple Beth Tikvah at a special dedication on Sunday, April 24 at 12:00pm. Kits will be available on April 3 & can be ordered through the Temple office -561-967-3600.
WEST PALM BEACH, FL (March 2, 2022) Habitat for Humanity of Palm Beach County (HFHPBC) recently hosted Outdoor Cocktails & Conversation on February 22, at the Hilton West Palm Beach to thank its partners from Over the Edge presented by Related Companies and launch Women Build 2022.
Kelly Smallridge, President and CEO of the Business Development Board of Palm Beach County is Honorary Chair of HFHPBC Women Build 2022. Kelly met with supporters and Women Build 2022 team captains at the event to share her vision of the campaign and took questions before the teams started to fundraise and build homes in Belle Glade for two women-led families.
Guests of the event also heard from Shaquashia Lane, one of Habitat’s future homeowners. Shaquashia thanked all the Women Build supporters who are helping her achieve her dream of homeownership. This home will create a more stable life for her young children and a place they can call their forever home.
Women Build is an annual, worldwide event engaging women to support affordable, quality housing. Starting with International Women’s Day on March 8, 2022, teams will come together to build homes, communities, and hope in Palm Beach County.
“I am thrilled to be involved with Habitat for Humanity of Palm Beach County’s Women Build 2022,” said Smallridge. “As we continue to see a need for quality and affordable housing in our area, it is important to support and be involved in organizations like Habitat that provide families the resources and opportunity to afford and achieve home ownership. To be able to participate in this event that builds two homes for single mothers is a privilege.”
To learn more about Women Build 2022, visit HabitatPBC.org or contact Mitchell Fratrik at 561.536.5872, email [email protected].
Confirmed partners include Bank of America, FPL/NextEra Energy, Humana, UNITY, Florida Crystals and New Day USA. AmFund was onsite during the kick-off event and provided a silent auction of travel experiences from their Trips of a Lifetime collection.
About Habitat for Humanity of Palm Beach County
Habitat for Humanity of Palm Beach County, founded in 1986, is a nonprofit organization dedicated to building strength, stability, and self-reliance through shelter. Each Habitat partner family is required to invest a minimum of 400 sweat equity hours of their own labor into the construction of homes before being eligible to purchase their home utilizing a 30-year, no-profit, no-interest loan. The affiliate’s service area extends from Hypoluxo Road in the south to the Martin County line in the north and from Palm Beach to Lake Okeechobee. For more information, visit www.habitatpbc.org or call 561.253.2080.
WHAT: EmpowHER! Celebration of International Women’s Day
Get EmpowHERed at Downtown Palm Beach Gardens! Join us on Sunday, March 6, down The Strand for a day full of FREE female-powered activities in celebration of International Women’s Day.
Downtown Palm Beach Gardens has 10 female-owned businesses including Blessed Boutique, Clay Haus, Craft Haus, Lickstein Plastic Medical Surgery Spa, Lola Chiq, Pineapple Kidz, Style So Chic, Tipsy Salonbar, Vagabond Apparel Boutique and What’s Cooking Kids.
In addition, Downtown Palm Beach Gardens will be accepting donations for Dress for Success of the Palm Beaches. Donations requested include gently used shoes, purses, jewelry, scarves and belts.
EmpowHER schedule of events:
10 am -1 pm: Caffeination Station (near the Interactive Water Feature in The Strand)
Enjoy floral lattes and get caffeinated for a day of entrepreneurship and entertainment
10:30 am – 11 am: Self-Care Hour (Downtown Park )
Bring your own mat or towel and join us for an hour of reflection and relation
11:45 am – 12:30 pm: The Breakdown: Panel Discussion with Local Boss Babes (in front of Lola Chiq)
Lola Chiq and special guest influencer give you the skinny on being a successful female-prenuer.
1 pm – 2 pm: The Breakdown 2.0: Panel Discussion with Local Boss Babes (in front of Vagabond Apparel Boutique)
Vagabond Apparel and special guest influencer give you the skinny on being a successful female-prenuer.
2 pm – 3pm: Headshots for Her (near the Interactive Water Feature in The Strand )
Come get creative shots for your brand with our guest photographer. Bring your laptop, props and coffee for a curated mini shoot!
3:30pm – 4 pm: The Power of Community: Building a Brand Powered by Community (near the Interactive Water Feature in The Strand )
Join special guests Holland Smith, The Social Hummingbird, Berkley Sweetapple and more as they share how they built their community-powered brand.
ADMISSION: FREE
WHERE: Downtown Palm Beach Gardens – various locations (see locations next to times above)
WHEN: Sunday, March 6 – 11am to 4pm
WHY: “At ShopCore Properties and Downtown Palm Beach Gardens we are proud of our women-owned businesses,” said Alexis Brock, Regional Marketing Manager. “We value diversity, inclusion and equality and respect our tenants in the same manner as our employees – not only on International Women’s Day, but 365 days of the year.”
Does the idea of taking photos with your family stress you out? Well, with these 5 tips from momgirlblog you can stay ahead of an disasters and make taking pics a memorable time.
Picture this.
You and your people in your favorite place…all smiles, hugs and good vibes.
Making memories that last you a lifetime.
Taking photos with your family should be a fun and engaging time.
If I’m being honest, I know it can be tough to rally the troops and get the look you were hoping for, but with these top 5 tips you’ll be sure to stay ahead of the game when it comes time to snapping those pics that leave lasting memories!
The D’Andrea Family
Plan Ahead! Discuss with your photographer when and where you want to shoot! Golden hour (sunset) makes for the best pics, so keep that in mind. Remind your family of your expectations! Is it one location? 3? Map out your day so everyone is on the same page. Communication is key! Don’t make any other plans for the day. Coming straight from a birthday party or event can make for some overtired kiddos!
Simplicity is key!
Don’t overcomplicate your outfits. Yes, you want to look fabulous, but let’s try to keep everyone comfortable too! Try to color coordinate…the less busy the better!
Come prepared!
Snacks, iPads, perhaps or a special treat? Give the kids something to look forward to, so they know once they’re done they get to reward themselves for cooperating!
Learn to pivot!
Yes, it might rain, kids might break down, but be open to shifting your expectations of what the perfect shoot should look like and manage your ability to realize there might be some obstacles and it will be just fine!
Have fun!
You will look back at these precious photos for years to come and be so glad you took the time to make your family feel so important!