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September, 2009 – Astrology at Work

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Karola CrawfordASTROLOGY AT WORK IN YOUR LIFE

 

By Karola Crawford

 

SEPTEMBER

 

   Happy Birthday to all of you Virgos out there!  Attention to detail, and, a need for healing or to be a healer is at the crux of your being.  Many times you need to heal yourself first, and then you are able, through expanded knowledge of yourself, to heal others in your family, your community and the world.  Virgo sees the tiny details that are prominent in projects and in daily life, and sometimes this is to the point of excluding the larger picture.  If you have strong Virgo in your chart, you may need to be prompted, from someone that can see the forest, to get a different perspective from above.  You, in turn, can tune in on the fine details for those that are unable to see where the focus needs to be.  Your strengths are in mechanical details, medicine, fine print and computer work.  You can usually catch a glimpse of the necessary information that may have been missed by others.  Your Ruler is Mercury, so mental energy is high with you and you need to learn to tone it down at the end of the day.  Meditate or do something extremely boring to quiet your mind.  Sitting on the patio and watching the sun set is a soothing activity for anyone, but it is especially good for your mind and nerves. 

   Your ruler is in the sign of Libra for most of the month, so you seek to balance your energy and please others.  This is a good time for social activities so have fun celebrating your birthday with many friends and family.  The last part of the month is good for extreme detail work that you have been unable to tend to.  Most of the confusion clears up the last week of this month.

 

Scorpio – This is the month of healing, so allow the inner promptings some space and try something new to feel better.  Stay very open in your mind this month…you will hear a positive suggestion that you need to follow up on now.

 

Sagittarius – Something very sudden and new will pop into your life and you need to act on it quickly or the idea will go away.  Listen to your inner messages as they will come when you are walking or exercising.  Write them down!!

 

Capricorn – Great changes are happening both inside and outside of you and you may be trying to hold on for dear life.  Allow the change to happen…you can’t do anything about it anyway.  In the near future you will see that it was exactly the way it needs to be and you would not have wanted it any other way.

 

Aquarius – Keep dreaming your dream and listen to the small voice within.  If you are suffering from allergies or vague symptoms, then get a complete check-up before following through on a herbal remedy. 

 

Pisces – You are able to go with the flow rather easily, but you do not like the abruptness of the changes that have occurred in the last few months.  There is still more to come, so see it as a breaking of the tight mold that you may have created.  You never know where you might end up and it will be a wonderful change.

 

Aries – Stick close to home this month and save the travelling for later.  Good things are happening on the home front so gather the family and friends and play games or talk.  You will find that you get more done now than you thought possible.

 

Taurus – It is important for you to receive recognition for work that you accomplished this month, so if no one notices, speak up.  This is a great month for beautifying your yard and redoing your home.

 

Gemini – The first part of the month will find you frustrated with projects that keep coming back instead of being completed.  Wait until after the 12th to get final details out.  Don’t sign any contracts, and read the fine print on anything that you are working on at this time.

 

Cancer – You have more energy than you have had in a while, so use it to finish some physical activities that you have been unable to do lately.  Enjoy the workout and relish the rewards for work that is finally completed.

 

Leo – This is a great month to get a makeover and try something new.  Your mind is focused on improving your gorgeous presence, so use the time to purchase new clothes and get that haircut that you have been wanting to try.

 

 

Karola Crawford, MAFA, has been a certified Astrologer for 22 years. She has cast charts for clients all over the world and also practices Holistic medicine, Yoga, Shiatsu, Reiki, Auricular Acupucture and is an accomplished artist. Where does she get all of her energy? A grand trine in fire, of course. Karola can be reached at 561-615-1591 or by visiting the web site at www.karolacrawford.com.

September, 2009 – YOU-TOPIA

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YOU-TOPIA

 

By Lisa Dawn Wax

Lightworker Lisa
Lightworker Lisa

 

 

Have you ever wanted something so badly you thought you would die if you didn’t get it?

 

Have you ever wished for something for so long that your heart ached with anticipation?

 

Whatever it may have been, this person, place or thing

     meant instant and complete gratification and happiness.

 

Well, if so, what did you do once you got it?  If, in fact, you did.

 

Did it mean as much as you thought it would?

Was it as perfect as it should have been?

Were you as happy as you thought you would be?

 

Did it give you instant life? Make your heart stop aching?

          Did the angels start singing above?

Most probably the answers are, No.

But, if they are Yes:

 

How long did the relationship last before it fell apart?

How often did you use it before you threw it away?

Or how long did you admire the scenery before you moved?

 

If you stop to think about it, you’ll realize…

 

There is only one person who can give you meaning

Only one place to find all that is wonderful and good

And only one thing that can make the difference between a

     Utopian way of life and one lived in misery.

 

The person is you

The place is within yourself

And the thing is your own self worth.

September, 2009 – A little back to school advice

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evan-baumelTEEN TALK

by Evan Baumel

A Little Back to High School Advice 

      No one can go far in life without asking for guidance. Advice is intended to make someone’s life better. When people give counsel, they usually offer an impartial perspective on certain issues. For instance, often a person’s competitive counterpart can offer words of wisdom. Another example is when parents attempt to advise their children on the tribulations of adulthood. Teachers and professors do what they can to best guide students in a particular field. Religious leaders are especially skilled in giving practical advice to their congregants.

      Of course, suggestions cannot be given without previous experience. When someone is asking another person for advice, it is usually because the latter had experience with the subject in question. I know personally that older brothers and sisters are some of the best venues for guidance, since they are considered more “experienced” in life. Knowledgeable people usually offer credible and accurate advice.

      High-schoolers in particular are always searching for advice. SAT or ACT prep guidebooks give advice to anxious pupils searching for a higher grade. Friends ask each other whether or not something is in style. Guys ask other guys about subjects like sports, girls, food, and other interests. Girls inquire about clothing, shopping, dating, etc. (according to Cosmopolitan magazine).

      I personally have been given a plethora of advice. For instance, I have been told that being affable and gregarious (big words meaning friendly) will earn me more friends than being self-centered. I have also learned that in some cases it is more practical to remain quiet than speak the “ugly truth.” All the advice that I have received has served one purpose: to make me a better person. The best advice ever passed on to me was, “Be open to what people have to say, but let your heart decide the paramount choice of action.”

      Thus, when I offer counsel, I do so with honesty and sincerity. Since I’m the Teen Talk columnist, I’ve decided to give general tips for students entering or returning to high school. Use them wisely:

  • On the first day of school, dress and act decently. Very often teachers (and other students) will base their attitude towards you on the way you look or what you say. If you give a bad impression, it’s difficult to restore your reputation.
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  • Join and be involved in one or more extracurricular activity. Sports, debate, art, theater, journalism, and/or community service serve to expand your interests. This does not mean you should join 10-15 clubs just to say you were a part of them.
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  • Freshmen: Don’t worry if you don’t know anybody. Find a few friends and stick with them. By sophomore year you should be fairly comfortable.
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  • When in doubt, don’t wear it. It’s best to be on the safe side.
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  • Have common sense. I have seen several students make irrational choices and I ask, “What were they thinking?” If you are doing something that you are uncomfortable with, don’t do it (unless it counts toward a grade).
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  • Learn how to write an essay. I’m surprised to find so many students who can’t write an extended response. Several classes will require one or more essays per semester, so it’s best to find out how to write an effective one.
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    Evan Baumel is a senior at Wellington High School.  He’s involved in Debate, National Honor Society, Key Club, politics and writes for the school newspaper.

    September, 2009 – Planning for Fiscal Health

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    By the Numbers 

    By Debbie Aria debbie-aria

    Planning for Fiscal Health 
     

    Regardless of the current state of the economy, financial planning is always an important issue for businesses and individuals. Whether it’s time to maximize your income or time to cut back on expenditures, you’ll need a plan to make sure you are making the most of your money.

    Financial planning takes a holistic approach, taking into account your current situation, needs (e.g. your assets, liabilities, income and expenditures), and your future objectives and life goals.

    Your life goals could include buying a home, building an investment portfolio, saving for your children’s education, managing debt or planning for retirement.

    A written financial plan is the beginning of managing your finances.  It is achieved through a thorough analysis of your financial circumstances, and the development of a long-term financial planning strategy.

    Setting goals is a significant component to any well thought out financial plan.  When setting goals, be specific and realistic and, by all means, establish a time frame for achievement.  Once goals are set the next step is to gather data. 

    With the proper data you can make sound decisions.  Preparing accurate financial statements is the best place to begin. A good way to do this is to write everything down.  Make a list of all income sources and all expenses.  List all assets (investments, cash, real estate, insurance cash values).  Don’t forget to make a list of all debt and current interest rates. 

    Once all the financial information is summarized, it’s time to create a plan of action.  Written plans are a set of assessments about what to do, why to do it, what resources to involve, and how to do it.    A well thought-out analysis of one’s current financial position can lead to proactive decision-making; take the initiative by acting rather than reacting to events.   

    Strategies may change depending on the current economic conditions, but with the proper tactics in place what could be rough ups and downs can be smoothed out to be more like ripples.  No one wants to think about economizing, but sometimes that’s just what we need to do to get by.  Consolidating debt, reevaluating expenses, and putting off non-necessities are just a few ways to streamline the cash flow in an economic downturn. When things are going well, it may be time to invest for those down times.  By changing a few habits your personal financial status can remain relatively smooth over the course of a lifetime. 

    Remember that financial planning is not static. It is an ongoing process that is constantly being updated as your personal situation changes due to marriage or divorce, death, illness, birth of a child or other factors. For businesses, the plan changes as market conditions change, the business grows, a new product or service is launched, to gain a better focus of an existing business or a business is prepared to be sold.  

    If you need help with business planning or getting your family finances in order, call me for a consultation.  I offer personalized service with integrity, objectivity, and professionalism. 
     

    Debbie Aria, CPA 
     

    About Debra Aria, CPA, PLLC Located at 79 Westbury Close, she has been in business for over 20 years and a Wellington resident for 16.  She serves individuals and small businesses providing tax and accounting services together with elder and long-term care issues including Medicaid planning and asset preservation.  She can be reached at 561-795-5516.

    September, 2009 – The Day My Heart Went Haywire

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    AS I WAS SAYINGAlan Williamson

    by Alan Williamson

     

    The Day My Heart Went Haywire

     

          Most days I wake up in the morning, eat breakfast, toss back some coffee, go to work and everything kind of unfolds within the familiar framework of my daily life. Now don’t get me wrong – there are surprises, small adventures and moments of spontaneous departure from the established plot lines, but for the most part, I can count on the essential who, what, where and when of my life being firmly in place on a daily basis.

          Except . . . for the Monday morning my heart started beating like an extended drum solo performed by a manic-depressive jazz musician. It sped up. It slowed down. At one point, it even played an African-influenced bongo riff from Paul Simon’s Rhythm of the Saints album. The end result of all this uncoordinated percussion was that my heart stopped efficiently pumping blood to the rest of my body, making me lightheaded, dizzy, and morbidly preoccupied with my own mortality.

          A quickly arranged trip to my doctor for an EKG revealed that I was experiencing something called “atrial fibrillation.” A-fib, I was told, is an irregular heartbeat where the heart’s two upper chambers (the atria) beat chaotically and out of synch with the two lower chambers of the heart, affectionately referred to as “the ventricles.” This disruption in the heart’s electrical system causes poor blood flow to the body, heart palpitations, weakness, and an increased risk of stroke.

          “This is all good information,” I told my doctor, “but there’s one small problem. You’ve got the wrong guy.”

          “Are you the guy whose wife drove you over here because you had a rapid heartbeat and dizziness?” she countered coolly.

          “Yes,” I conceded, “but this is the kind of thing that happens to unhealthy people – people with heart disease, high blood pressure or a thyroid condition. I’m in the best shape of my life, I work out, I meditate, eat whole foods, don’t smoke, drink red wine moderately, and have never been admitted to a hospital in over 50 years on this planet.”

          “Well your heart didn’t get the memo,” she pointed out. “I’m putting you in the hospital for further tests.”

          Going from a self-reliant man in command of his destiny to a patient with three IV’s in his arm and a skimpy hospital gown covering up roughly 50% of his God-given goodies is a serious blow to a guy’s pride.

          “I’ll run home and bring you some sleep pants,” my wife volunteered. “Anything else you want?”

          “Do we have any ‘Get Out of Hospital Free’ cards lying around?” I ventured lamely.

          Any remaining shred of manly dignity disappeared the first time I had to pee in the plastic container they put at my bedside. Had I known I’d be relieving myself in a plastic jug any time soon, I would have practiced at home in my spare time to hone my speed and accuracy. As if taking a wiz propped up in bed while strangers walk by your open door wasn’t degrading enough, I then had to hang my steaming micro-brew from the IV stand for visitors to gaze at.

          “Just bottled a fresh batch,” I told the nurse stopping in to check on me. “I’m calling it Haywire Heart Amber Ale.”

          “Did they tell you what needs to happen by tomorrow morning?” she asked, unimpressed with my entrepreneurial spirit.

          “Is that the part where I wake up and realize this was all a dream?”

          “Actually, with the help of these IVs, your heart needs to convert back to a normal rhythm by then.”

          “And if it doesn’t?”

          “If it doesn’t, we put you under and electrically shock your heart to interrupt the arrhythmia.”

          “Sounds like a plan,” I nodded thoughtfully. “Listen, if for some reason I’m not here in the morning, feel free to start without me.”

          Fortunately, my heart did convert back to a normal rhythm, at 11:46 that night to be precise. I know this because I woke up out of a fitful sleep to see a nurse standing under the clock at the foot of my bed saying, “You converted.” Groggily coming to, my mind scrambled to grasp her words – I converted? To Judaism? Organic living? A life of fighting crime wearing a skimpy hospital gown?

          “Your heart converted back to a normal rhythm,” she clarified. “Now go back to sleep so we can get on our schedule of waking you up every 20 minutes throughout the night.”

          With my heart back on script, the only remaining concern was why it went rogue on me in the first place. Because all the tests confirmed that I didn’t have any underlying heart disease, high blood pressure or thyroid issues, all the main causes of A-fib didn’t apply. The cardiologist called it “lone atrial fibrillation,” which is basically medical jargon for “sometimes stuff happens and with any luck it won’t happen again.”

          Here’s what I think happened. My pericardium, a thin, two-layered, fluid-filled sac that covers the outer surface of the heart, became inflamed because of a viral infection. With the membrane around the heart swollen, the pressure caused changes in the normal heart rhythm bringing on the isolated episode of atrial fibrillation in an otherwise healthy man. But hey, I’m no expert . . . just a guy with a computer who Googles the Mayo Clinic.com and the New England Journal of Medicine.

          Just to be safe though, I have made some lifestyle changes. I’ve converted to an organic diet and taken up interval training wearing a hospital gown. The healthy eating and extra exercise are great for my heart, and wearing the hospital gown reminds me of a profound but simple truism:

    Life is short, so live fully and cover your butt when you can. 

     

    Alan Williamson is an award-winning writer with 27 years in the field of true fiction (advertising). A practical man who knows that writing for a living is risky going, he has taken steps to pursue a second, more stable career as a leggy super model. Alan can be reached at [email protected].

    September, 2009 – To all the grandchildren in the world

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    (EDITOR’S NOTE:  This column first appeared shortly after the 9/11 tragedy in 2001.  It has run every year since, with the author’s updates.)

    CANTANKEROUSLY YOURS

    by Wendell Abern

     

    To all the grandchildren in the worldWendell Abern

     

    Dear Grandchildren Everywhere,

          Today, I am writing to apologize to all of you.

          Usually, I try to write funny things.  But I can’t today.  On September 11, eight years ago, a few evil men stole some airplanes and flew them into buildings, killing thousands of people.  And this month, memorials throughout the country will mourn those who lost their lives.  Reminders of that horrendous day make it too hard to think funny thoughts. 

          Instead, today I want to apologize to everyone in your generation from everyone in mine. 

          My generation inherited two world wars that killed millions of people.  We should have learned something from those terrible wars, to make the world a better place for you.  We didn’t … and we didn’t.

          And so, it would be hypocritical for me to offer any advice to you.  I can, however, tell you some of the lessons we should have learned … that every generation should have learned.  None ever has.  I hope yours will.

          We never learned the one thing that every human being on earth has in common:  none of us asked to be here.  We had no say in the matter at all.  But once given the gift of life, no one should have the right to take it away.  Yet human beings kill other human beings every day.  Every hour.  Every place on earth.  And too often, in the name of some –ism, or –ology, or –ocracy.

          One reason for this is because of another lesson no generation has ever learned:  how to tell The Good Guys from The Bad Guys.

          That is just as dumb as it sounds.  But see … we never understood how badly we want to believe in our leaders.  Our presidents, our prime ministers, our priests, our rabbis — any of our leaders.  We want them to be smart, to be fair, to be honest, and always to be right. 

          But our leaders are merely human beings.  They make mistakes, just like we do.  They are wrong sometimes, just like we are.  Yet we continue to endow them with kindness, intelligence and righteousness, whether they possess such qualities or not. 

          Another reason we never learned how to tell the Good Guys from the Bad Guys is because history is written by the winners. 

          Many centuries ago, a man named Alexander led an army that conquered other countries.  Some history books still refer to him as Alexander The Great.  No history book tells us what he was called by the thousands of widows and orphans his marauding armies left in their wake.

          If Germany had won World War II, the madman Adolph Hitler – arguably the most evil human being who ever lived — would be portrayed in today’s history books as a dynamic, righteous leader.  

          Because we want so badly to believe in our leaders, we seem to be willing to do anything they ask.  Our leaders discovered long ago that by using the hatred of others, it is easy to galvanize us in a common cause, which almost invariably leads to mass killings.

          Many in this country balked at the Vietnamese War because we didn’t understand who hated us.   Conversely, if our government had declared war on Iran after zealots

    had kidnapped 52 Americans, everyone in the country would have backed our leaders with fervent jingoism.

          My personal belief is that there is nothing as beautiful or sacred as a human life.  Any human life.  Yet, at some point in the history of our civilization, our leaders decided that our beliefs were more important than our lives.  I’m not sure just when or why this happened, but that has never changed.

          About seven thousand years ago, there were almost 27 million of us listening to a few leaders, telling us to go kill each other in the name of some –isms.

          About five hundred years ago, there were now 450 million of us, still listening to a few leaders, still telling us to go kill each other in the name of some new -isms.

          Today, there are more than six billion of us, still listening to a few leaders, still telling us to go kill each other in the name of some –isms.

          When does it stop?  When do we stop killing each other?   

          More than 150 years ago, a man by the name of Georg Wilhelm Friedrich Hegel said, “What we learn from history … is that we never learn from history.”  Sadly, that is just as true today.  

          And because we never learn, we keep repeating past horrors.  More than 60 years after the unspeakable atrocity known as The Holocaust, after a weary world swore, “Never again,” after a United Nations was created to bring peace to the whole planet, genocides continue to flourish.  Ethnic cleansing seems to occur every decade or so.  As I write this, the slaughter of innocent people continues in Africa, Eastern Europe and Asia, all in the name of some –isms. 

          When does it stop?

          Another important lesson we never learned:  don’t stop questioning just because you believe in something.  We have survived on this planet because of our brains.  We are not as strong or fast or agile as most other animals on earth.  But we are smarter.  Our brains are our most potent weapon.  And we should never stop thinking. 

          Yet somehow we always do whenever we are told that what we believe in gives us license to kill other human beings.

          Well, almost always.

          Mahatma Gandhi tried mightily to bring people together with love instead of hatred.  So did Martin Luther King.  So have a precious few others.  Too many have discovered that hatred works better. 

          But I believe there are glimmers of hope; that the current president of my country, Barack Obama, is one of several world leaders trying to temper centuries-old conflicts with dialog instead of dogma … that they are sincerely trying to give you a world with much more love than hatred.  I hope your generation can help them succeed.  

          And finally, here is a lesson we all should have learned in kindergarten:  there is only one planet that supports life.  This is where we all have to live.  It’s not as if we have other options, like when we want to move to another neighborhood.  There is no other neighborhood.  This is it.  We should be taking care of this planet.  And I must admit, your generation is doing a much better job of it than mine did.

          I hope you can start to turn other things around also.

          Most of all, I hope you can start to stop the killing.  It will take many, many future generations for that to happen.  But it has to start sometime.  I hope it starts with you.

    I hope you can make the world a tiny bit better.  And a little bit cleaner.  And much safer.

          I hope when you are my age, you never have to write a letter of apology

    to all the grandchildren in the world. 

          Sincerely,  

          Wendell Abern 

    Wendell Abern can be reached at [email protected].

     

    September, 2009 – Back to school — Back to the gym!

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    HEALTH & FITNESS

    by Cheryl Alker

    BACK TO SCHOOL – BACK TO THE GYM!

    So you madecheryl-alker-0909 the “Commit to be Fit” pledge on January 1st 2009
    and it was all systems go. Statistics show that at least 50% of new members to a fitness facility will have dropped out within the first three months. Your good intentions, however, may have actually lasted until the beginning of June but then summer came, the children broke up from school and that pledge now seems a lifetime away. Or maybe the pledge was made but you actually never went any further than the pledge itself. Either way, with the children now back at school it is time to re-assert your promise to yourself “To get fit in 2009” but how, where, and what?

    It would seem like there is a fitness center of some sort on just about every street corner these days, so where do you start?

    The first question you have to ask yourself is what type of exercise you want?

    • Do you love to swim?
    • Will you be happy
      just running or walking on a treadmill or do you need the latest machines
      to keep you motivated?
    • Is yoga, stretch
      or pilates your thing?
    • Are you the outdoor
      type?
    • Would tennis be
      something that could keep you motivated?

    health-fitness

     

    Answering the above questions is vital to the type of facility you should start investigating. Your enthusiasm may be high at the moment, but unfortunately, even with all the best will in the world this will wane. For success, it is imperative that the right choice is made now.

    If variety is your thing, you’ll need a gym with lots of group classes, maybe a pool, a racquetball and basketball court and many different types
    of machines.

    If you just need to get in and out, find a facility set up for a “quickie workout;” this way you won’t be paying for all the classes and amenities you won’t be using.

    If your daily life runs at 110 miles per hour, maybe you need to consider some balance, therefore, a mind/body studio that offers, yoga, stretch and pilates would be more beneficial.

    The good thing is they are all available and will no doubt be close by, although convenience is a priority. It will be far too easy not to go if your travelling time is too great. Decide when you’re going to work out most of the time. If it’s in the morning or on weekends, a facility close to home may be more suitable; however, if you want to fit your workout in during lunch or after work, choose a gym close to the office.

    Once you’ve decided on the type of facility that will work for you, then it’s time to take a field trip. Visit at the time you generally will be exercising. This way you can see how busy the club is and whether you will easily be able to use the equipment or get into the group class of your choice.

    Ask what type of credentials the staff have, and do research on it yourself if you are not familiar with the certification they tout. Check the facility’s
    emergency procedures; not only should their staff be able to coach you through a safe and effective exercise program, they should know how to handle a medical emergency.

    The facility should have an automated external defibrillator (AED), a machine that analyzes a person’s heart rhythm, determines if an electrical shock is needed, and delivers the shock. An AED’s use while waiting for paramedics to arrive can be life-saving. If the club doesn’t have an AED, find another facility.

    Be observant when you tour facilities. Is it clean? Are there “Out of Ordersigns on any pieces of equipment? Are there sprays or wipes easily available throughout the gym for cleaning the equipment after use? Are the locker rooms unkempt? Are the showers dirty or leaking? Is the hot tub cloudy? Do the machines look like they are in poor condition? Is the studio floor clean? What about the mirrors? Consider these questions when determining whether this is the place where you want to spend your money or your time.

    Does the Club offer all the amenities you desire (e.g. child care, personal training, massage, a restaurant)?

    What is the cost? Cost is usually tied to what the gym has to offer, so don’t pay for the nicest, newest club if you are never going to need the showers, lockers, child care or pool. If you just want to run on a treadmill, there will probably be a less expensive option in your area.

    For whatever gym you join, be wary of the fine print. Ensure you’re not locked into a long-term commitment. Find out the allowances for special
    circumstances such as the birth of a child, illness of a parent, operations. Can you freeze your membership any time you wish?

    If you travel often, make sure your club has a reciprocity agreement with other clubs.

    Finally, talk to people. Does the gym have a good reputation? Get some impartial information by checking with the Better Business Bureau to see if any complaints have been lodged against the facility you are considering.

    Of course a gym may not be what you are looking for; perhaps outdoor pursuits are more up your alley like walking, cycling, tennis etc. If this is the case, you’ll need to consider how the weather variations throughout the year will affect your ability to adhere to your program regularly and long term.

    No matter what your preference, consider finding a “workout buddy.” Making an appointment with someone, whether it a friend or a trainer ensures a greater chance that you won’t cancel on yourself. No matter how you feel on your workout day, make yourself a promise that you do at least 10 minutes. If, after that first 10 minutes, you are still not up to the challenge then you may stop and go home. You will often find the most difficult part of your workout is getting there, once you have started it really is not that bad!

    Exhausted? Don’t be – now you have made this important decision, don’t set yourself up for failure. Get it right at the outset and this will be the last year you make “Getting Fit” your number one New Year’s Resolution or come September you feel as if you have to start all over again.

    Happy Hunting!

    Cheryl Alker specializes in flexibility training, facial exercises and postural alignment. Her 26-year career began as a group fitness and personal trainer. She has lectured and directed fitness training programs in both Europe and the USA and was an advisor for a British governmental health promotion program. Alker and her company Stretch Results International continues to work with a select clientele from a base in Palm Beach County, certifying health professionals in her results-based stretching program, educating consumers through public speaking and offering consultation to clients who wish to lose their muscular pain and gain flexibility to achieve full and active lifestyles. Her program has been accredited with The National Association of Sports Medicine, The American Council of Exercise, The National Strength and Conditioning Association and The Florida Physical Therapy Association. For more information about professional continuing education and consultation options, please call Cheryl at (561) 889 3738 or visit www.stretchresults.com.

    September, 2009 – I Love Calling Stonehaven My Home

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    Neighborhood Scoop debbi-sanacore-web

    By Debbie Sanacore 

    I Love Calling Stonehaven My Home 

    I love calling Stonehaven my home, it is so close to everything, yet nestled away on a natural 35-acre lake is this manned, gated community of 253 one and two story homes.  It was one of the first “newer communities” built in the Wellington area along the 441 corridor constructed by Centex homes on 133 acres in unincorporated Palm Beach County.  The first homes were completed in 2001.  The community features two sections; the estates section features a minimum lot size of 65 X 120 and the Classic series lot size is a minimum of 55 x 120. Under air sq. footage ranges from 2200 to 3800 square feet providing a variety of living spaces well-designed to suit many different lifestyles.   

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    The Community has its own website www.stonehavenestates.org, and newsletter “The Stonehaven Chisel” communicates important information to residents regarding all community affairs. 

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    The recreation area includes an Olympic-size heated pool and Jacuzzi, as well as tennis courts on a 35-acre lake that can be used for fishing and boating. A lovely Clubhouse is available for all the residents with a banquet/meeting room, kitchen facilities and an exercise room with free weights and machines.  By the pool is a large covered patio is with tables and chairs. 

     A sand-based tot lot is used by our younger residents, as well as four other park areas.  The association fee includes the use of all this, as well as basic cable, individual home alarm monitoring and the 24-hour manned gate for extra security.   

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    One thing that Stonehaven residents enjoy is the small size of this community. In other words, it’s large enough to have these nice amenities, yet small enough that you can “get to know your neighbors.” 

     

     

    Debbie Sanacore has lived and worked in Palm Beach County for the past 30 years.  She is a Realtor with Keller Williams Realty in Wellington, where she serves on the agent leadership council and is the current secretary of the Wellington Rotary Club. She also owns a thriving “unfranchise” business. Want to know more? Call her at 561-301-3229.

    September, 2009 – The Truth about Bottled Water

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    Why Do We Scream About Gas At $3 A Gallon…

    But Willingly Pay Nearly $16 a gallon for bottled water?

     

    By Jathynia Garcia 

    It is a fact that the global bottled water industry has become very profitable in the past ten years. Huge multinational companies currently make billions of dollars on water they simply extract from the ground, slap a label on and sell at competitive prices. Examples of these companies include: Aquafina (Pepsi), Dasani (Coke), Perrier (Nestle), Evian, and Fiji Water among hundreds of others. But what are some real facts about bottled water? Is it truly safe on the environment? How will it affect the generations to come? Here are some mind-boggling facts:

    Bottled Water Facts

    • The United States is the world’s leading consumer of bottled water. In 2006, bottled water consumption in the US reached a record 8.3 billion gallons, 185 million gallons of which was imported. The total amount spent on bottled water was over $11 billion.
    • In contrast to tap water, which is distributed through an energy-efficient infrastructure, transporting bottled water long distances involves burning massive quantities of fossil fuels.
    • Making bottles to meet Americans’ demand for bottled water requires more than 1.5 million barrels of oil annually, enough to fuel some 100,000 U.S. cars for a year.
    • It costs more money to drink bottled water than to put gas in your car–up to five times more–due mainly to its packaging and transportation.
    • 86 percent of plastic water bottles used in the United States become garbage or litter.
    • Buried water bottles can take up to 1,000 years to biodegrade.
    • Studies show that consumers associate bottled water with healthy living. But bottled water is not guaranteed to be any healthier than tap water. In fact, roughly 40 percent of bottled water begins as tap water; often the only difference is added minerals that have no marked health benefit.
    • Bottled water companies do not have to release their water-testing results to the public, whereas municipalities do.
    • A city’s tap water cannot have any E. coli or fecal coliform bacteria, while bottled water is allowed a certain amount of these bacteria. In addition, most cities’ tap water must be tested for Cryptosporidium or Giardia, common water pathogens that can cause intestinal problems, including diarrhea. In contrast, bottled water companies are not required to conduct these tests.
    • People pay from $1 to $4 a gallon for the perception of higher quality when, in fact, the quality of bottled water is at best unknown! Over 90% of the cost of bottled water is in the bottle, lid and label.
    • On average, one person uses 166 disposable plastic water bottles each year.
    • If everyone in New York City were to use a reusable water bottle for one week, for one month, or for one year it would make a significant difference in reducing waste. 
      One week = 24 million bottles saved 
      One month = 112 million bottles saved 
      One year = 1.328 billion bottles saved

    SO WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?

    Water Filters

    The best alternative to tap water is in-home water filtration. With an in-home water filter you can have better than bottled water quality for under 10¢ a gallon. Fill a reusable water bottle from your filter and you are good to go!!

    There are so many benefits to having ultrafiltered water at every faucet.  Of course, it eliminates the on-going cost and inconvenience of bottled water.  Beyond that, 

    •   You’ll enjoy “bottled water” taste from every tap — no more unpleasant taste or odor

     

    •   It’s healthier: this system removes 99.99999% of bacteria & 99.9% of viruses from your water supply…while also significantly reducing particulates & chlorine without removing the essential minerals in the water you drink

     

    •   There’s no energy used, and it continues to filter water for your home (even if there’s a power failure) — so there’s no electric or gas costs.

     

    •   Your appliances and pipes may last longer, since particles that build up and damage working parts won’t get there to start with!

     

    •   It reduces dry skin & allergic reactions that chlorinated water can cause

     

    •   The system cleans itself — automatically — every day

     

    •   And there’s no significant impact on water pressure

     

    There are many options on water filter systems. From water softeners, to reverse osmosis, even ultraviolet filtration systems, from single cartridge filters to whole house system, there are many possibilities & depending on the condition of your water a licensed water specialist will advise you of what specific filtration system will best suit your family. And, you can pay for your in-home filter system with all the money you will save by reducing or eliminating your bottled water purchases!!

    FINAL TIP ….Reusable Water Bottles – Want to do something good for the environment and for your health? Instead of buying bottled water, which is a big waste of resources, try filling a reusable water bottle from your tap or filter.

    So ditch the bottle and save money by getting a water filter system that meets your needs. Contact your local plumbing company or visit www.hi-techplumbing.com for a complimentary analysis of your water. We even offer maintenance plans to continue providing you with clean, peace of mind, great tasting drinkable water… just as if it were coming out of the bottle.

    Thinking Green? If you think green is the right choice for your upcoming plumbing project, we invite you to call us at Hi-Tech Plumbing about adopting a green remodeling philosophy. Hi-Tech plumbing is a local plumbing contractor in your local Wellington area who specializes in green building and remodeling, so you can be sure that your new plumbing is as green as it comes. For more information visit our website at www.hi-techplumbing.com or call our office at 561-790-6966.

    September, 2009 – Life Lessons from My Two Year Old

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    HEY KIDS! Hey…great young writers! Do you have a story that you would like to submit for aroundwellington.com? Send your 1-2 page story to us, along with your 1. Name, 2. Email address, 3. Age and 4. Phone number.

     

    Life Lessons from My Two Year Old

    by Amy Ahlers

     

    My firecracker of a daughter, Annabella, aka “Bella,” is turning two on September 4th. I marvel at her energy, her zest, and her strong will. This phase of parenting is often referred to as the “terrible twos,” but this stage has been a profound teacher for me. I am learning so much about life by witnessing Bella in all her two year old glory. Here are some of my favorite lessons:

    Celebrate EVERYTHING: This is one of my favorite things about being Annabella’s mom. She celebrates e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, no matter how small or large. Drinking a smoothie? Clap your hands with glee. Made it up the stairs all by yourself? Shout with joy, “I did it!” Have a friend coming over to play? Run around and do the happy dance! Couldn’t we all celebrate more? Isn’t it wonderful when we acknowledge our wins? Let’s take this tip from Annabella and start noticing and focusing on our wins, accomplishments, and when we feel GOOD. Relish your joy!

     

    Persistence Is Key: Watching Annabella learn to walk and talk is fascinating. She has an amazing relationship with failure and persistence. Can you imagine if we approached new things with the persistence and enthusiasm of a two year old? Fall down? No big deal! Fumble that word? Try again. And again. Oh, and be gentle with yourself in the process. Failure is no big deal. Wow!

    Singing Really Does Make Life More Fun: Annabella often begins her day with singing. We’ll hear her on the baby monitor singing “Old MacDonald Had a Farm” or “Itsy Bitsy Spider”. She can frequently be found walking around the house humming a tune or singing “la, la, la” to her own beat. And truly, I see the healing power of music in her and the vibration of the entire house is raised. Try it for yourself and see what happens.

    Say NO With Conviction: Being on the receiving end of a firm “NO!” isn’t always fun, but I have to admire the sheer will and conviction of Annabella knowing what she WON’T do and what she DOESN’T want. Imagine if we were able to simply say “no” when we don’t want to do something. Especially for women (who are masters at saying “yes” when we really mean “no”) there is power in saying a clear “no” and sticking to it.

    Make Friends Everywhere You Go: My husband and I took Bella on the subway recently and she was hilarious. She made so many people smile and laugh – she literally made friends on the 20 minute BART ride. It was wild, and it reminded me of the magic of being open to new people, places and things.

    Wearing Your PJs Out In The World Is Fun: Need I say more?

    Hug, Cuddle And Say “I Love You” As Often As Possible: When Bella is having a bad day, hugs and cuddling are the cure-all. And I must say, I feel like we don’t value it enough as adults. Take it from Bella and ask for a hug when you need one. Add to that, Annabella recently learned how to say “I Love You” and she loves saying it. She’ll look at you, smile and say a big “I love you” at the most unexpected moments. My heart melts every time. So, my friends, get a hug, snuggle with your loved ones and express your love loudly and often. This practice will change the world.

     

    Amy Ahlers is a celebrated Success Coach and professional “wake-up call” to the world. To learn more about her powerful techniques for waking up to the truth about how fabulous you are, please visit www.WakeUpCallCoaching.com.

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    HEY PARENTS! Are your young children (approx. 2 to 5 years old) ready for some online games that are challenging and educational? Here are some of our favorite links.

    www.sesamestreet.org

    www.noggin.com

    tv.disney.go.com

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    Feel free to suggest more of your favorite links! [email protected], subject heading: “Kids’ Corner.” THANKS!