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Norton Closing for Several Months to Finish Interior Construction and Reinstall Art

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Norton Closing for Several Months to Finish Interior Construction and Reinstall Art

Museum is partnering with Grandview Public Market to present programs while closed July 16, 2018 through Feb. 8, 2019 to finish expansion project

WEST PALM BEACH, FL (June 4, 2018) – With structural and exterior construction of The New Norton transformation project complete, the Norton Museum of Art announces an extended  closing during the second half of 2018 to put the finishing touches on the interior of the building and reinstall  art that has been in storage for more than two years. The extended closing will begin on July 16, 2018. The Museum will re-open to the public on Feb. 9, 2019 with a free day of activities and exhibitions.                                                     

Though the building will be closed for several months, the Norton will not be absent from the community. The following programs will continue at Grandview Public Market located at 1401 Clare Ave., West Palm Beach:     

  • Family Art Pop-Up, a new Museum program where children ages 5-12, and accompanying grown-ups, have lively discussions about art in the Norton collection followed by an art-making workshop.
  • Curators’ Conversations feature Museum curators previewing exhibitions that open in 2019.
  • Member Insights programs (for Museum Members only), led by Norton education and curatorial staff, offer opportunities to look closely, discuss, and learn more about masterpieces in the Norton Collection.                        

All programs are free, but advance registration is required. To register, or for more details, visit www.norton.org/grandview.

Grandview Public Market (GPM) is a food and market hall located in the city’s emerging warehouse district, and is housed in a mid-century building originally constructed as a frozen food facility for Tropical Shipping Lines. With a goal of creating a space where everyone can feel comfortable, fed, and entertained, the repurposed building has become a popular hub for chef-driven cuisine, music, cultural programming, and a curated selection of retail shops. “We work hard to maintain this feeling of inclusiveness,” said GPM co-owner Chris Vila, “and are delighted to share it with our growing community. In partnering with the Norton during its renovation, Grandview is excited to expand its cultural footprint and raise awareness of the wonderful programming presented at the Norton.”          

 

“The vision and energy of Grandview Public Market, and what it offers the West Palm Beach community, is exciting,” said Norton Deputy Director Sam Ankerson. “We look forward to presenting programs at this lively, innovative new venue, and exploring connections between art, learning, and good food!”

The following Museum activities and programs will continue at other venues:

  • Mini Book + Art programs will continue at Palm Beach County branch libraries 3:30 to 5 p.m. the first Tuesday of each month beginning in September.
  • Book + Art programs will take place 2 to 3:30 p.m. on select Saturdays at different Palm Beach County library branches beginning in September.
  • Afterschool Art Outreach, which provides year-round art classes to students ages 5 -18 at eight community centers throughout the county will continue and, instead of the normal visits to the Norton, will include free visits to other cultural institutions.
  • School Partnerships with Forest Hill Community High School, Jupiter Community High School, Palm Beach Day Academy, and four International Spanish Academy Schools will continue at the schools and incorporate art projects into the schools’ curricula.
  • ArtSpeaks, the annual, subscription lecture and luncheon series, will be held at the Colony Hotel in Palm Beach on Jan. 17 and 18, 2019, and also on Jan. 31 and Feb 1, 2019.

Before closing, the Museum will celebrate the completion of The New Norton structure and the reinstalling of art with a festive Art After Dark on Thursday, July 12 from 5 to 9 p.m.                                     

The Museum also will present its annual Bastille Day celebration from noon to 5 p.m. on July 14. As always, the day features all things French: great music, art activities for all ages, art tours and talks, films, food and drink. Local quartet Les Nuages (The Clouds) returns for an encore performance, delivering joie de vivre with a mix of Parisian love songs and French gypsy-jazz. The event is free. For details, visit norton.org starting June 1.

The final day to visit before closing is Sunday, July 15.

 

The Museum will re-open to the general public on Feb. 9, 2019 with exciting new

exhibitions and works from the Museum Collection that have been in storage during construction, including Persian Sea-Life, better known as “The Chihuly Ceiling,” as well as new gifts and acquisitions that will be on view for the first time! Visitors also can look forward to a new restaurant and a new museum store.                      

 

The Norton’s annual, free Chinese New Year celebration is scheduled for Feb. 16, 2019, and Black History Family Day is set for Feb. 23, 2019.                 

 

About the Norton Museum of Art

Founded in 1941, the Norton Museum of Art is recognized for its distinguished holdings in American, European, and Chinese art, and a continually expanding presence for Photography and Contemporary art. Its masterpieces of 19th century and 20th century European painting and sculpture include works by Brancusi, Gauguin, Matisse, and Picasso, and American works by Stuart Davis, Hopper, O’Keeffe, Pollock, and Sheeler.

 

The Norton presents special exhibitions, lectures, tours, and programs for adults and children throughout the year. In 2011, the Norton launched RAW (Recognition of Art by Women), featuring the work of a living female painter or sculptor and funded by the Leonard and Sophie Davis Fund/MLDauray Arts Initiative. In 2012, the Norton established the biennial, international Rudin Prize for Emerging Photographers in partnership with Beth Rudin DeWoody, in honor of her late father, Lewis Rudin.

 

In 2016, the Norton broke ground for a visionary expansion designed by architecture firm Foster + Partners, under the direction of Pritzker Prize-winning architect Lord Norman Foster. The project reorients the Norton’s entrance to the main thoroughfare of South Dixie Highway, reestablishing the architectural order of the museum’s original 1941 design. New features include a 42,000-square-foot West Wing that doubles education space, and increases gallery space for the Norton’s renowned collection. The transformation of the Museum’s 6.3-acre campus will create a museum in a garden, featuring new, verdant spaces and a sculpture garden.

 

The Norton is located at 1451 S. Olive Ave. in West Palm Beach, Florida, and during construction is free to the public through July 15, 2018. Hours are Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday noon to 5 p.m. and Thursday, noon to 9 p.m. Free parking and shuttle service is available at 1501 S. Dixie Highway. The Museum is closed on Mondays and major holidays. The Museum will close for an extended period beginning July 16, 2018, and reopen Feb. 9, 2019. For additional information, please call (561) 832-5196, or visit www.norton.org.

 

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Why is Cranio-Facial Pain Worse than Everything Else?

Why is Cranio-Facial Pain Worse than Everything Else?

By Dr. Jonathon Chung, Keystone Chiropractic

Outline:

  • Pain is weird
  • Chronic head and face pain and suicidality
  • Why head and face pain feels worse
  • The neuroscience of suffering

Pain is complicated. It’s even more complicated as a doctor because the expectation from years and years of conditioning is that when you have pain, then something about that painful body part must be damaged to cause it. When people are in pain, doctors are typically trained to identify things like a ruptured disc, broken bone, or torn muscle to validate a patients’ sense of suffering.

In this model, the more damage that is present = more pain. Less damage = less pain.

However, the experience of pain can be way more complex than finding damaged tissue. The experience of pain is an emotional response to ‘painful’ sensory receptors called nociceptors. Tissue damage can cause a lot of pain receptorsto fire, and trigger increased pain, but it is far from the only factor in the pain equation. We have to take pain into the context of cultural, social, cognitive, and experiential factors.

Which takes us to an important point.

The amount of pain you experience can also depend on what body part is injured. As we’ll see today, there are hardwired circuits in your brain that can make the experience of pain in the head/face a different and perhaps worse experience then pain from the body as a whole.

Chronic Facial Pain and Suicidality

Chronic pain is a known risk for suicidal ideation, and has been documented in numerous studies [source]. These thoughts have a higher chance of turning into behavior when you have chronic pain and a co-morbid mental health disorder [source].

This effect seems most pronounced when the source of the pain is coming from the head or face. Two disorders in particular are highly associated with suicidal thoughts and behavior; trigeminal neuralgia and cluster headaches. Trigeminal neuralgia has a high enough association that it was historically dubbed the ‘suicide disease’, while cluster headache has been known to be called the ‘suicide headache’.

Both of these illnesses are associated with some of the most intense pain that human beings can experience. The severity of the pain combined with the chronicity of the pain lead to a sense of despair because these disorders can be difficult to treat, so there is always a fear of the next attack.

Scientists have recently uncovered some neurological pathways that might explain why conditions like trigeminal neuralgia and cluster headaches can cause such disproportionate suffering compared to other body pains.

The Trigeminal Complex and the Limbic System

It’s been known that pain experienced in the head and face activate the emotional centers of the brain more than pain felt in the periphery of the body [source]. From an evolutionary standpoint, a higher state of pain in the head and neck region may have served a  purpose so that there would be extra vigilance in protecting this region of the body from injury. What was unknown was weather this heightened sense of protection was derived from a psycho-social factors, or if it was something that was hard wired into our nervous system.

Duke University scientists may have some answers. A 2017 study in Nature Neuroscience showed that neurons in the head and face have a direct pathway to the emotional circuits in the brain.

Scientists identified a direct connection between sensory fibers of the trigeminal nerve into a part of the brainstem called the parabrachial nucleus. The parabrachial nucleus has direct connections into the emotional hub of the brain in the amygdala, which is highly tied to fear and avoidance behavior.

Why is this important? Because direct, aka, monosynaptic connections are way more powerful sensory stimuli than indirect pathways.

Think of it this way:

Let’s say you were mailing a time-sensitive package that needed to get to its destination as soon as possible. Would you choose to overnight it by plane, or would you choose regular first-class mail?

You probably chose to overnight it right? Why? Because it’s going to get there faster, and because the person receiving it is going to perceive that package as more important because it was sent with all of this overnight labeling implying it’s importance.

These direct pathways are like your overnight deliveries, where the indirect pathways are like ground shipping.

Our brains place a higher priority on signals coming from these monosynaptic pathways.

While other body regions only use an indirect path to the parabrachial nucleus, the trigeminal distribution uses both indirect AND direct pathways to stimulate this emotional hub.

That means that firing from nociceptive pain fibers in the trigeminal distribution, or even pathways that share trigeminal distribution will have a higher chance of driving an emotional response than pain fibers from the shoulder, back, hip, etc.

The Emotional Brain’s Influence On Pain

How big of an influence does emotion make in the experience of pain? In this study, the researchers stimulated pain receptors in the paw or in the face of mice using a chemical called formalin. Using a technique called optogenetics, researchers can selectively activate brain activity in a mouse model using different light frequencies.

When light activated the direct pathway, the mice showed more intense avoidance behavior to the formalin on the face. When light was used to knock out this pathway, the mice didn’t react as strongly.

So you have the same amount of pain stimulus, the same mouse, and it experiences pain differently because the path to the parabrachial nucleus was turned off.

It suggests that our emotional brain’s connection to a painful stimulus plays a substantial role in the experience of pain.

Biology vs Psychology

There’s always a debate about nature vs nurture when confronted with the struggles of human existence. In recent years, it has evolved into a debate between biomechanical/orthopedic search to treat identifiable lesions vs a biopsychosocial approach which generally tends to lean heavily on the psycho and social components of the pain experience.

Here is some evidence that suggests that the two are inseparably linked together.

The experience of pain is intimately tied to our thoughts, memories, expectations, and current mental state. If the experience of pain is tied to some of these neural circuits, then changing our mind activating our different neural circuits in the brain can change our experience of pain.

It also means that fear/avoidance behavior, and repetitive responses to painful stimuli may reinforce the neural circuits that generate the same pain over and over again.

Changing thoughts and behavior can have a significant impact on the perception of pain and the feelings of suffering for a persistent pain patient.

That doesn’t mean that we are just telling people in the midst of a terrible trigeminal neuralgia or cluster headache attack that they have to suck it up and think differently about their pain.

It means that when people have persistent pain disorders, in the process of treating patients with various interventions, we have to help and guide a patient through the process of re-framing their pain and illness.

This is really hard for patients with persistent pain. It means that sometimes we are walking a line where a patient may feel like we are telling them that the pain is just in their head. Sometimes it means that the patient is going to ask the same question, or tell you the same symptom over and over again because they’re looking for you to just understand that what they are feeling and that know that they’re being heard.

Trying to help a patient disassociate themselves from their chronic pain emotionally is challenging. After all, most of us didn’t become doctors and therapists to be a patient’s psychologist. However, empowering a patient with a stronger belief in the resilience of their body can be extremely fulfilling, and in my opinion puts people on the path to recovery while they’re in the process of receiving quality care.

Wellington Back to School Supply Drive

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Wellington Back to School Supply Drive
 

Wellington’s Community Services Department recognizes the importance of education and that our future leaders are attending Wellington Schools.  To help students reach their full educational potential the Wellington will host a Back-to-School Supply Drive June 4 through July 20, 2018. 

Supplies may be dropped off at the following locations between the hours of 8:00 AM – 5:00 PM:

  • Village Hall (12300 Forest Hill Boulevard)
    •    Wellington Community Center (12150 Forest Hill Boulevard)
    •    Community Services Office (1092 Wellington Trace)
    •    The Lake Wellington Professional Centre (12133 Ken Adams Way)
    •    Village Park (11700 Pierson Road) 
     

The goal is to send students Back-to-School with pencils, paper, glue, rulers, folders, backpacks, crayons, notebooks, etc.

The collected supplies will be distributed to students who attend Wellington schools at the annual Back-to-School Community Block Party scheduled for Saturday, July 28, 2018.

If you have any questions please contact Community Services at 561-791-4764.

As another way to stay informed on the latest news and updates from the Village, residents are invited to sign up for Wellington information and updates at www.wellingtonfl.gov/enews.
 
For information about other Wellington programs, events, activities, and updates, please visit www.wellingtonfl.gov or watch WellingtonTV for the latest happenings.

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Kids Eat Free on Wednesdays this Summer at Toojay’s

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Kids Eat Free on Wednesdays this Summer at Toojay’s in Wellington

MNM Theatre Company Announces Tickets are On Sale Now for All Four Productions in 2018

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MNM Theatre Company Announces Tickets are On Sale Now for All Four Productions in 2018

at the Kravis Center’s Rinker Playhouse

  • AVENUE Q
  • I LOVE YOU, YOU’RE PERFECT, NOW CHANGE
  • MY WAY: A Musical Tribute to Frank Sinatra
  • GREASE

 

(West Palm Beach, FL – May 25, 2018)  Marcie Gorman, Executive Producer & Artistic Director for MNM Theatre Company, today announced that tickets are now on sale for all four major productions in 2018 that will run at the Kravis Center’s Rinker Playhouse. The upcoming shows and performance dates are:

The Cast of Avenue Q. (Photo Credit: Jacek Gancarz)

AVENUE Q

May 25 to June 10

This triple-crown Tony Award winner (Best Musical, Best Score, Best Book) is a laugh-out-loud adult musical with both live actors and puppets. Directed by Bruce Linser with music direction by Paul Reekie, the show will feature Nayomi Braaf, J.R. Coley, Robert Fritz, Paul Louis, Jayne Ng, Rick Peña, Nicole Piro, Courtney Poston, Michael Scott Ross, Kate Ryan, and Wesley Slade.

 

I LOVE YOU, YOU’RE PERFECT, NOW CHANGE

July 27 to August 12

The second-longest running Off Broadway musical about “everything you have ever secretly thought about dating, romance, marriage, lovers, husbands, wives and in-laws, but were afraid to admit.” Directed by Dom Ruggiero with music direction by Caryl Fantel, the show will feature Clay Cartland, Anna Lise Jensen, Heather Kopp, and Michael Scott Ross.

 

MY WAY: A Musical Tribute to Frank Sinatra

September 28 to October 14

This delightful musical revue features 56 songs recorded by “Ol’ Blue Eyes,” including All of Me, All the Way, Chicago, Fly Me to the Moon, High Hopes, It Was a Very Good Year, Love and Marriage, That’s Life, the title song and more. Directed by Dom Ruggiero with music direction by Caryl Fantel, the show will feature Clay Cartland, Laura Pylor, Hannah Richter, and Mark Sanders.

 

GREASE

November 16 to December 2

The most popular movie musical in history is set in Rydell High School in 1959 and features such pop hits as Summer Loving, Hopelessly Devoted to You, Greased Lightnin’, You’re the One That I Want, and Beauty School Dropout. GREASE will be co-presented with the Kravis Center for the Performing Arts. Directed by Bruce Linser with music direction by Paul Reekie, the show’s cast will be announced this summer.

 

How to Purchase Tickets:

Tickets for all four shows from MNM Theatre Company are now available for purchase online through the Kravis Center’s official website at kravis.orgby phone at 561.832.7469; or at the Kravis Center Box Office, 701 Okeechobee Blvd. in West Palm Beach.

 

About MNM Theatre Company:

Now a not-for-profit 501(c)(3), donations can be sent to: MNM Theatre Company, 318 S. Lake Drive, Lantana, FL 33462. For more information, please visit www.MNMTheatre.org.

Are you and your pet ready for a Natural Disaster?

Are you and your pet ready for a Natural Disaster?

Anzer Animal Hospital

By Cristina Anzures

Once again we face hurricane season, and with some forethought and preparation, you can make the storms easier and safer for you and your pet.  

  1. Make a Plan and be prepared. Decide on a course of action.
  2. Have a Pet Emergency Kit: Enough water for three days, non-perishable food (include a can opener if needed), a solid carrier, litter, litter box, puppy pads, plastic bags, medicine and medical records for both you and your pet in waterproof containers, extra leash, and a picture of your pet on you in case the worst happens and you get separated. Tags and/or microchipping your pet will also make it easier to recover, should it get lost.  
  3. If you’re staying home to ride out the storm, secure your pet before the storm hits.  
  4. If you’re told to evacuate, you must do so at first warning. Make sure you know ahead of time exactly where all the shelters are and how to get there.  

If you leave your pets behind, they may be lost, or injured. Never leave a pet chained outdoors. Plan options include:

  • Ask a trusted neighbor to check on your animals.
  • Identify shelters. For public health reasons, many emergency shelters cannot accept pets.
    • Find pet friendly hotels along your evacuation route and keep a list in your pet’s emergency kit.
    • Locate boarding facilities or animal hospitals near your evacuation shelter.
    • Consider an out-of-town friend or relative.
  • Locate a veterinarian or animal hospital in the area where you may be seeking temporary shelter, in case your pet needs medical care.
  • Have your pet microchipped and make sure that you not only keep your address and phone number up-to-date, but that you also include contact info for an emergency contact outside of your immediate area.
  • If you are unable to return to your home right away, you may need to board your pet. Find out where pet boarding facilities are located.
  • Most boarding kennels, veterinarians and animal shelters will need your pet’s medical records to make sure all vaccinations are current.
  1. Whether you leave early, choose to stay, or are required to evacuate due to the storm’s severity or due to house damage, remember to stay calm. Your pet can sense your emotions, so a calming demeanor can lead to a less-panicked pet.
  2. After the storm Your home may be a very different place after the emergency is over, and it may be hard for your pets to adjust.
  • Don’t allow your pets to roam loose.
  • While you assess the damage, keep dogs on leashes and cats in carriers inside the house. If your house is damaged, your pets could escape.
  • Be patient with your pets after a disaster. Try to get them back into their normal routines as soon as possible. Be ready for behavioral problems caused by the stress of the situation.
  • If your community has been flooded, check your home and yard for wild animals who may have sought refuge there.Wildlife can pose a threat to you and your pet. Be ready for everyday emergencies

Disaster plans aren’t only essential for the safety of pets. If you’re responsible for other kinds of animals during natural disasters, disaster plans for feral or outdoor cats, horses and animals on farms can be lifesavers.

Advocating for Our Children

Mommy Moments

Advocating for Our Children

By Briana D’Andrea

Our tiny humans are small. They are vulnerable. They simply don’t know any better. So it is up to us as parents, to always go with our gut and advocate for our children and the safety of their lives. I remember it like it was yesterday. Our family had recently moved to Orlando, because of a job opportunity presented to my husband. At the time, I remember how difficult it was to leave our family and friends behind for sure, but it was almost the most difficult to say goodbye to our pediatric doctor.  I remember it like it was yesterday. We had interviewed him while pregnant with our first born, completely elated that we had found “the one.” It was almost as if he were a trusted member of our family, someone that would give us advice in good times and bad, when it came to the well-being of our little babies. When Reagan was first born, Dr. R (That’s what we will call him) saw us for his very first well-check, when he was running a high-fever, he was our trusted source, when it was time for vaccines, we drove a half an hour just to see our beloved doctor, because we didn’t think it would be possible to find anyone else who understood us…and then we moved.

I knew NOBODY. I couldn’t phone a girlfriend who had a baby, because well I had no friends. My bigger boy hadn’t started school yet, so it wasn’t like I could ask the others moms where they went and when he finally did start school, every doctor was more than 45 minutes away from where we lived and that was a no go with a 3 month baby in tow, who HATED the car and was already subjected to an hour and half commute daily. I remember scouring the mommy sites, local Facebook pages, doing research on every doctor in the area, when finally after countless reviews and numerous phone calls, we had decided on a practice. Upon arrival, I wanted to just curl up in a ball and cry. For whatever reason, it had this gloomy disposition in the waiting room…no one was friendly. Perhaps you could say it was the post pregnancy hormones that were kicking in, that contributed to my disappoint, but so be it. I know it didn’t do me any good to compare, but I just couldn’t help it. After going into what seemed like a weigh-in station at a vet clinic, we finally met with the doctor I had done countless amounts of research on. I wanted to like him. I really did. I try incredibly hard not to judge a book by its cover, but I just had this weird gut feeling about being there. My daughter at the time suffered from a severe case of eczema on her face. I was nursing at the time and remember trying everything I could think of. Eliminating dairy, more water in my diet, lotions, body washes, keeping it dry, you name it, I did it! Dr. Y (we will call him) immediately saw little miss and said, “Oh, it’s just a simple case of baby eczema. Go to Target, get yourself some “xyz” cream and rub it on the area twice a day and it should go away (Not interested in degrading the company). I left that day sobbing in my car and oddly enough received a phone call from our previous doctor asking me how things were going and if we had managed to find a doctor. I remember in that moment wanting to head straight down I-95 and not look back, but that clearly wasn’t an option.

Our family is incredibly passionate about healthier alternatives. I wouldn’t call myself a crunchy mama, but if there is a healthier option for a lotion or a protein bar, you bet your bottom dollar I’m paying the extra 50 cents. I liken it to preventative medicine in an effort to not have to medicate an existing condition. I caved and bought the cream, because in all honesty I was DESPERATE! However, deep down in my heart, I knew that this lotion in particular was full of ingredients that I not only couldn’t read, but were potentially harmful to my little growing baby. I went home opened the bottle, put the cream on and by the next morning the situation had not gotten better, it got worse! Now while it could have been a number of contributing factors, in that moment I was mad at myself. Mad that I hadn’t said to that doctor that what he was “prescribing” was in fact no good and it didn’t take years of medical practice to recognize that, mad that I even gave it the slightest chance to help my poor daughter who was suffering from cracked, red skin on her precious milky face. I marched right back to the store, returned it and vowed that from that day forward, I would always be an advocate for my children. That mother’s know best. That I would be darned if some old school doctor who probably got his graduate degree long before studies were released about the harmful effects of products and foods currently on the market were no longer acceptable would tell me what my daughter needed most. That I would have a voice and the courage to say, “No Sir!” A month later, that said doctor wanted to prescribe yet another magic cream, that he thought would help my daughter with another skin issue she had. That my friends was the last time I went to his practice. I vowed to find another doctor that held on to the same values that my husband and I practiced. As luck would have it, we were able to move back home to our original doctor 7 months later.  Now while maybe not everyone is so lucky, my advice is this. Don’t EVER let someone tell you their opinion doctor or otherwise and allow it be the end all be all. YOU have a voice, USE it! Whether that means getting a second opinion, changing doctors or just standing up for what’s right in the world. Our little ones rely on us to be their advocates in this life and that my friends, is something I will always do for my babies, no matter the circumstance.

-Briana D.

7 Steps to Fulfillment

Health and Fitness

7 Steps to Fulfillment

 By Sherri  Mraz

Do you dread Mondays or do you wake up excited to start a new day and a new week?

 

Are you feeling a burn inside of you to fulfil your purpose?

 

The late Dr. Wayne Dyer said, “Don’t die with your music still in you.” Today is the day to start pursuing your dream.

 

There is nothing more fulfilling in life than to be in alignment with your true purpose. Even if you have the perfect home life and all your check boxes are filled, without following your own unique call you may never feel complete.

 

For the past 15 years I listened to the call, the whisper inside of me to help people, actually it was more like a shout than a whisper.

 

However, as great as is it to follow your passion, that doesn’t mean it’s smooth sailing. Building your own dream and being an entrepreneur also comes with many hard lessons.

 

When you start out fueled with passion you will find that without business goals you can work too hard. Passion does not mean you have a plan or money in the bank.

 

Along the way I learned a few things to focus on.

 

Your 7 key components of a passion filled business

 

  • Be authentic, don’t follow someone else’s message and dream. What was your biggest challenge in life? Use it, tell your story, that makes you relatable and how others will connect with you. What you thought was your curse is your blessing.

 

  • Ask, the way to help others is to know what they want. How can I serve you? Pay attention every day to what people are asking you for? Is it how to stay in shape, eat healthy, cook healthier…listen, they are telling you how you help. You can also ask the 5 people who know you best, how I can help others, often they know you better than you know yourself.

 

 

  • Keep it SIMPLE and Uncluttered, no one thrives in chaos. This is when less is more is never truer! Get rid of piles of papers, old to do lists, anything excess must go. All that undone, unfixed unorganized baggage is weighing you down. Get inspired, clear your space, hang quotes, add fresh flowers or plants to your space, light a candle, make it a joy to be at your desk or workspace.

 

  • The 80/20 rule, Give and Get. This is a biggie! 80% of new businesses fail in the first three years because they run out of money. It is important to follow your call, but you must charge for it. 80% of the time you can be giving tips, while 20% you are charging for a product or service. Treat your business as a business, set office hours and set prices. Follow a system.

 

  • The F words…Focus, follow up and follow through. Keep your focus on one project at a time. Follow up with everyone and follow through. Whatever you are working on, stick with it until complete. Create timelines, start with the end in mind and work it backwards.

 

  • Build a team. “No man is an island,” this was never truer than when it comes to business. You must know your strengths and weaknesses. If you are good at technical stuff then do it yourself, if not hire someone, stick with what you are good at. When hiring it is imperative that you know exactly what you need them to do and why, explain it to them, don’t expect them to figure it out for you.

 

 

  • Start an inspiration box. Create a later file, when you are following your passion, it will unlock a dam of ideas. Remember to keep your clutter down. All of your ideas have merit, but remember we are only working on one at a time. An inspiration idea box to come back to after you completed your current project will help you stay focused on your current project.

 

These rules have served me well and I hope that you will be inspired to get your own music out to the world. Feel free to reach out and share, I can be reached at sherri@wellnesscookingacademy.com.

 

A little about Me: I’m a business coach for health-focused wellnesspreneurs, helping you create your own authentic message. I primarily work with health coaches to develop solid business plans. After 15 years working with my own clients and teaching as the Cookin’ Yogi, I now share my own proven system to unite your passion with your purpose. I am a certified health coach, cooking instructor, author and owner and founder of the Wellness Cooking Academy. My greatest joy is helping others thrive and fulfill their dreams.

And You Thought I Couldn’t Get any Crankier (3)

(CAPTION TO PHOTO) The author, saying good-bye to his beloved walker. Photo by Karen Gonzalez.

Cantankerously Yours

And You Thought I Couldn’t Get any Crankier (3)

By Wendell Abern

Dear Readers,

It’s all over! My rehabilitation has been completed! I’m finally walking without my walker. Well, most of the time.

The seizure I had in late January is now almost six months behind me. As are two rehab stints, one at HealthSouth, the other at SunriseHealth & Rehab.
Left ‘em both in shambles.

After a month at HealthSouth, I went home, only to run into a strange problem: I couldn’t eat. Consumption of any food made me sick. Unheard-of. The legendary Abernian tradition for wolfing down unconscionable amounts of food was at stake!

Back to Florida Medical for another five days. After an undending barrage of acronyms — EEGs, EKGs, X-rays, CT scans, MRIs, and a bunch of other C’s, G’s and T’s — specialists representing a wide range of -isms came up with a brilliant medical deduction: I was sick.

They changed my medications. And sent me to SunriseHealth & Rehab for what turned out to be another month.

I hit a snag on my first day.

“Hey!” a nurse shouted at me. “Why aren’t you in Occupational Therapy?”

“Because I just got here,” I said, unpacking.

“Check your schedule. You’re supposed to be in the OT room with the others.”

“No, I’m supposed to be in a movie with Halle Berry, but the rest of the cast hasn’t showed up yet.”

She put her hands on her hips. I crossed my arms.

She frowned. I smiled.

She marched out of the room. I hung up my sweat pants The nurse returned three minutes later with a muscular young guy.

She smiled. I frowned.

“This is Ken,” the nurse said. “He’ll be your occupational therapist.”

“Hi, Ken. Where’s Halle Berry?”

“She’s in the OT room, waiting for you.”

Yeah. Right.

The OT room was filled with blocks, balloons, empty cardboard boxes, four patients in wheelchairs and three therapists.

“Where’s Halle Berry?” I demanded.

“She’ll show up after you put together this wooden puzzle.”

I did. She didn’t.

The next morning, it got worse. After breakfast, I ambled into the small gym for my first physical therapy session. Briefly, I scanned the equipment: exercise bikes, treadmills, various heavy objects, oversized wooden blocks, ankle weights and other torture devices.

Mentally, I wrote a caustic letter to my congressman.

Then my physical therapist introduced herself to me. Cari. Beautiful young blonde with eyes bluer than Lake Michigan.

Note to all rehab patients: institutions like SunriseHealth hire beautiful young women who had served as drill sergeants in the Army and Marines … then train them to be innocent-looking physical therapists.

“Why aren’t you in your wheelchair?” Cari asked.

“Didn’t need it. I used my walker to get here.”

“Who told you that you didn’t need your wheelchair?”

“Jennifer Lopez.”

Cari ignored me. “From now on,” she said, “you come here in your wheelchair until I tell you otherwise.”

It had taken a whole month at HealthSouth to rebuild the strength in my legs. But I had just struggled through an alphabet soup array of problems – all while flat on my back — at Florida Medical. Hadn’t used my legs in more than a week. They were rubber again.

Cari started with some basic exercises.

“Raise your right leg, from the knee, so it’s straight out from your body.”

I did.

“Fine,” she said. “Now do 20 of those.”

“How many?”

“Twenty.

“Let’s negotiate,” I said. “I’ll do ten.”

“Thirty,” she said.

“What! That’s not a negotiation, it’s a declaration of war!”

“Forty,” she said.

“Okay, okay. I’ll do twenty.” And I did.

“Now the other leg.”

After I finished, she came up with five other exercises. “Very good,” she said when I’d finished.”

“What’s good? Everything aches.”

“We haven’t even begun,” she said, smiling. “Now let’s get your walker.”

We walked up and down the hallway twice.

Finally, after almost an hour, she sent me to Occupational Therapy. Ken’s turn. He had me haul six heavy towels out of a big cardboard box, fold them and return them to the box.

Then repeat the process two more times. My arms ached. Under my breath, I cursed him in Yiddish.

“I know what a putz is,” he said.

“Good. You’ll be happy to know you qualify.”

After ten days, I decided to take my walker and go for a stroll up and down the hallway.

When I neared the gym, Cari popped out.

“What are you doing?” she demanded.

“Walking.”

“You can walk without your wheelchair when I say you can!”

“You’re so compassionate.”

“Back to your room!”

A few days later, when I started my therapy session with Cari, I said, “I can’t believe what I heard at breakfast. Most of the patients at my table actually think you’re a great therapist!

“I’m sure you set them straight.”

“The vote was six to three in your favor,” I said. “And I patently refuse to reveal whether I am a blue state or a red one.”

“Doesn’t matter. Today, we’re going for a walk outside. A long walk. Then you’re going to learn how to get in and out of a car and the proper way to step off a curb.”

“Yes, Nurse Ratchett.”

“Oh, you know her! She was my prize pupil. Until she was nice to a patient. Then I flunked her.”

Cari put up with me for the entire time I spent at Sunrise Health. I have to admit, she spearheaded a program that had me back on my feet and walking without my walker in a month.

The day I left, she said, “See how much good the physical exercise did?”

I nodded. “Listen,” I said, “nothing personal, but I hope I never see you again.” Then I actually kissed her on the cheek.

Cantankerously Yours,
Wendell Abern

How Chocolate Lasagna Saved Our Home

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How Chocolate Lasagna Saved Our Home

The Bliffen-buppels were just about to lose their home to foreclosure. They were perched to move the following day, intending to take their two children and move into a rent-by-the-week motel.

     Heavy-hearted, Mindy and Ted took one last look around the two-story townhouse they’d purchased ten years earlier, now almost entirely empty. Although the walls were free of ornamentation and the furniture had been put in storage, the cozy carpeting and warmly painted walls still evoked the feel of a cozy hearth. They looked at each other and sighed, sinking onto the banquette which they’d built in front of their living room bay window. Hearing their kids laugh from the TV room made them feel a little lighter.

      “Oh what the heck!” Ted announced, standing. “Let’s have one last good meal out!”

       Mindy screwed up her face. She looked out the window, taking in the stand of dwarf palms they’d purchased two years earlier, now almost three feet tall. The memory of happier times gave her a drip of hope.

      Wiping her moist eyes, she shrugged, “I guess it couldn’t hurt if we’re really frugal. We’ll have to wear our moving clothes Well okay…that is, if we each only have either an entrée or a dessert. We really can’t afford both.”

      “Terrific!” Ted yelped. “How about that Italian place everyone’s talking about—Ag-g-gliolio’s?”

       “It’s pronounced Al-iolio’s,” Mindy corrected him. “Silent ‘g’.” She had worked as a translator before the kids were born.

        

      As Ted opened the car door for Mindy, he noticed an orange hibiscus growing next to the driveway. The kids climbed in the back while he plucked it.

      He climbed into the driver’s side, and turned towards Mindy. “May I?” he asked placing the flower in the buttonhole of her work shirt causing her to smile.

       Arriving at the elegant restaurant elevated their mood. They sat and perused the menu. The children had been clearly told that they had the choice of ordering either an entrée or a dessert. Not both.

        “Can’t we have pasta and also maybe just one itsy bitsy dessert split between us kids?” whined Linda, the eldest. At fifteen her hormones were raging, and her appetite was bottomless.

        Mindy shook her head. “You know the rules kiddo! Going into foreclosure’s no joke. Just coming here is a big luxury.”

       “Wait a minute!” hooted Linda pointing at the menu. “Am I hallucinating? Chocolate pasta made from real pasta?”

        “No way!” ten-year old Freddy chimed in. “That way we can have both an entrée and dessert in one. Cool!”

       “Chocolate pasta—how decadent!” added Ted. “I’m in!”

        “Okay then, let’s make it an even four!” sang Mindy, shutting the menu.

        Ted rubbed her hand. “I’m glad we’re here but…I feel terrible. I—”

        “You have to stop apologizing, honey! You did the best you could. We both did! We’ll be okay at the motel. It’ll just be for a while.”

         “It’s safe. I know. But it’ll take us a good six months before we can even afford to rent a house.”

     

         “Excuse me,” said, a middle-aged man sitting at the next table. “I couldn’t help hearing your conversation. Number one, my late wife and I were nuts for the chocolate lasagna here. My ear perked up when I heard you discussing it. You will not regret it! Secondly, I’m a bank manager and I specialize in helping good people avoid foreclosure. I believe in second chances because I’ve been given oodles. Here’s my card!”

         Ted glimpsed the business card he was handed as the well-dressed gentleman stood. The older man continued, extending his hand “Mr. Wellson, Bank Manager. Call me first thing tomorrow.”

         Ted stood, awestruck. “Ted Bliffen-buppel. I-I—”

         “Happy to meet you, and you family!” said Mr. Wellson, then walked towards the exit.

          “Did that really just happen?” asked Ted.

          “Yup!” sang his family in unison, then giggled.

          When the waiter delivered the chocolate lasagna he informed them that Mr. Wellson had bought their dessert for him. It was sumptuous. The most decadent dessert they’d ever had.

           “Wow, he’s real!” yiped Ted.

            Mindy placed her hands in prayer position. “I believe in goodness!” she purred.

 

             Let’s jump ahead to after the Bliffen-buppel’s new mortgage had been established under Mr. Wellson’s supervision at a much lower rate then they could have even imagined. They were out celebrating at Agliolio’s. Dining at the divine Italian establishment had become a monthly habit. They made a point of always having the chocolate lasagna, ordering it while speaking in a loud voice.

       You never know who might be listening.

        

        And that’s how chocolate lasagna saved their home.

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